How do I break up with my girlfriend without breaking her heart?

My girlfriend just isn't what I am looking for in a girl, but I don't want to hurt her real badly! I would still like to be friends with her though too! We are like complete opposites, but she doesn't see that! I liked her when we were friends when we first met, but she a different person now that we are going out than when we were friends! What can I do to get rid of her so I can get another girl without breaking her heart too badly?How do I break up with my girlfriend without breaking her heart?
You really should explain to her what you said to us don't be afraid of how she will feel tell her youd rather be honest with her then get down the road and run into all these problems and you care for her and you still want to hang out with her becauase she is a really cool person. Oh what ever you do don't give her the I'm just not ready for a relationship thing that is the worst untrue thing a guy can say to a girl he is breaking up with. tell her you will be there for her like always and ask her not to be upset and you really want you guys to be great friends. here are some more tips: don't get your or her friends to do it, do not do it by internet or phone, don't make her feel uncomfortable. Just be natural and please try to understand how she is going ot feel and be sure to take you time and don't be rushy wiht it when you are breaking it to her. I know this probally isn't what you needed but it's how i would want a guy to break up with me and my friends have been through many also. Just be causal and things will be fine. Oh yeah don't forget to say hey to her every now and then and ask her to hang out with you as a friend every ohter week. don't completely shut her off.How do I break up with my girlfriend without breaking her heart?
U can do anything.. as long as it's not throught the phone,e-mail,or txt message!


And do NOT start with ';It's not you...it's me.';.


Just meet her up somewhere..preferably a nice cafe. And go on from there. Good Luck with that!
tell her that u need to be alone for a while or more
That is a tough question, because no matter what you do you will break her heart, but I know that if a guy would start driving her crazy. be clingy, obnoxious, loud, rude and forget your manners. LOL!!! Good Luck!
just tell her you dont want to go out with her anymore. dont bother explaining it or justifying it. just repeat what you said. she'll never accept your explanations anyway.





do it in person. be brief about it, then leave.
After you break it off, severe all ties with her. If you keep talking to her afterwards it will take her longer to get over you. You want to stay friends but you may have to sacrifice the friendship to save her feelings.
you can't do that without hurting her plain and simple but life goes on if you don't wanna be with her it'll take time but she'll get over it
Well I am the same way I don't like to hurt ppl so my advise is to just tell her that she is different now than before. Just be honest it doesn't hurt them as bad when you are honest.
Tell her that you are bad person and she don't deserves to waste her life with you... ^_^
you should not justify your self rather then you tell her that you both could be great friends.she cannot be your girlfriend because sometimes what we think of is not fulfiled because you don't whant to break her heart it shows how much you care for her and maybe she also felt the same thing but was afraid of saying to you
U just did that.... and i am the same girl ... just alot smaller.........
Its going to hurt what ever you do.But if you don't wont to be with her its better for her that you do break up so she can find some one who likes to be with her.Women are strong at any age .She will hurt but she will get over it.But will you get over the guilt of breaking it off
Be honest with her and tell her this. The longer you put if off, the worse it is going to be. You will probably hurt her, but you will hurt her more if you lead her on. As for staying friends, it's a nice idea but in reality it doesn't work.
If you still want to keep your title of a man or a boy (whatever that describes you) i suggest telling her to her face. Any other way of telling her ie voice recording, note, pictures, is just not masculine.





Break her heart and be truthful. Tell her what she could improve on.
it depends on if she feels the same way you do!! if she really likes then you will probably break her heart
say i amsrry but its not working...good luck
you young it seem, if she was not you want in a girlfriend


the why did you ask her to be your girl, first of all, the sign


was there in the beginning , but now you have to be a man


and let her know how you feel she going to be hurt any way


that you do this but my advice is to hold off in getting with


any body until you fiqure out what you want other wise


you will hurt someone else.
i think u should tell her that u guys are growing apart and u think u need to see other ppl, and hope u can be friends.