How to deal with a unique break-up issue?

My girlfriend broke up with me today and she stated that she really liked me but she didn't want a boyfriend at the beginning of the year. I really like her but how should I deal with her considering we have many classes together. I don't want to drive her away from a future relationship.How to deal with a unique break-up issue?
Give her a while to adjust to the new school year and explore options with other guys. If you really like her though remind her that you're always there and you care about her. When you have class together be friendly towards her but don't come on too heavy or she won't feel comfortable around you.How to deal with a unique break-up issue?
i hate it when guys say that to me!!


they always end up getting a gf the next day.


so maybe you should just be friends with her, and then at least try to move on. thats what im doing...except im not friends with him cuz of some of the stuff he said about me...which is really rude, but whatever.


good luck, i know it sucks that you have to see her everyday and it may hurt but dont let her know its bothering youu.


she could take advantage of that. thats what my ex is doing to me.



Buddy play this one! Be the coolest guy there make friends with every one and you will ether get her back or you will get so much more! Friends, and they will always be there for you like mine have been there for me!





When you get older you will understand that I mean when I say the worl has many fish in the sea!





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';doesn't want a bf at the begining of the year';


i find that hard to believe it looks cool to have a bf at the start of the year you should see all the kids making out at my school already
It kind of sounds like one of those lame break up excuses. Why doesn't she want a boyfriend at the start of the year ? Try to find out that answer and take it from that point.
Maybe you should just try and be friends with her because that way you are still close but she doesn't feel pressured either
make her jelous.


start flirtiing with another girl.


its a lame excuse she gave you so make her want you back.

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How to handle stress if me and my girlfriend break up again?

me and my girlfriend have been together for a year and 4 months.she has my name tatooed on her back.We live together in nyc.Our relationship is going good now and everything but one time about 5 months ago we had broke up for 2 weeks(long story).


When we broke up I aint think we was gonna wind up back together.I was real stressed,never been that stressed before in my life.I guess cuz it was my first time in love.I was barely getting any sleep,only about 2 hours of sleep.I also couldnt watch certain tv shows or movies cuz I used to think about her when I did.I guess cuz i was so used to living with her.Its like almost anything I did,I would somehow reminiscence about her.


Im trying to find a way,just in case we was to break up again,how would I handle the stress?I sometimes wonder how do people be getting over 5 and 10 year relationships.how should I handle the stress if that happenes againHow to handle stress if me and my girlfriend break up again?
You had a hard time when you broke up once. True !!


But what you are going through right now can be more painful. Thinking about the past experience a lot can make that particular experience more painful.





What you are feeling right now can not be termed as Stress Control Management for future.. Its called INSECURITY.





You love ur gf. true. You cant live without her. true. You couldnt sleep. true. But whats wrong is.. Your constant thoughts about the break up.





It wont allow you to live happily. The moments of life which can be the most beautiful ones, You are missing out on it.





I cant say YOU WONT EVER BREAK UP. but tell me.. what if you never broke up ? You will be wasting your whole life thinking what will happen if she will leave you.





We live once. You wont get another lifetime to improve. Its this life only where you will have to show ur care and love rather than thinking the negative part.





You have left her. Your subconscious mind has already accepted that You are going to break up. why ? Man.. You havent broke up. but mentally you have.





Think positive ( i hate this term ) but still.. try to keep calm. You are on her back forever ( tattoed ) Do not worry..





Life is good. Life is beautiful. Get out of your self made troubles. Get your Girl. Make her feel your love.





Take careHow to handle stress if me and my girlfriend break up again?
keep youtself occupied but if you keep thinking that your gonna get yourself stressed out trying to prevent it. you might even start trying to be too perfect and push her away. BE YOURSELF AND DON'T WORRY.what good does worrying about something you dont even know will happen do?
I am in a three year relationship and this is from personal experience:





When you have been with someone for so long, you feel that you are ';safe'; -your name on her back makes you feel ';safe';-the fact that you live together makes you feel ';safe';. I would assume that unless something happens, you two would be together and maintain a normal relationship.





If something happened and for some reason, you didn't feel that ';safe'; feeling, everything you described is a normal reaction.





My advice to you, is know that you would be okay without your girlfriend. While having her in your life is an extremely positive thing and has brought a lot of love and happiness to you, you need to honestly feel that you would be okay without that. If you are so dependent on her being there, you may ultimately push her away, or let her feel that she can take advantage of you. There needs to be a certain balance and I would be curious to know if she was the same way when you two broke up?





Having a bf/gf is a wonderful thing. Just try not to feel like your whole world is over if something happens again. Do things for you and create your own life so that you can keep living it regardless of if she is there or not.
You are borrowing trouble. She did not break up with you so why are you worrying about it? Sounds like you are stressing yourself over something that didn't happen.





Just enjoy your life with her. If you break up at some later time, you will deal with it when it happens. Relax.
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Should i break up with my girlfriend?

She means so much to me i think i love her... but we have been going through tough times its so hard to get through this its like we hit a wall and we don't know how to get over it its so frustrating i feel like i don't want to do anything anymore because im so worried about it i don't want to give up on her and she doesn't want to give up on me but idk what to do its been so hard. any advice?Should i break up with my girlfriend?
You guys sound like you need a long talk. Figure out exactly what's going wrong on both ends, and try to fix them before you end it. Trust me, if you end it before trying to fix it, you will regret it. I've done that. I've also had to have some talks with my boyfriend when it felt like we had hit a wall, and we're in a super happy relationship now. :) Talk to her before you make any drastic decisions.Should i break up with my girlfriend?
You must always remember that no relationship is perfect, your always going to have your ups and downs. Your just a little bit in a rough spot right now. Don't worry too much about it, just keep moving forward. Be strong and be there for each other and try to be understanding as much as possible.
If she's as important as you say she is to you then maybe you should sit down with her an talk about this with her an see what you guys might be able to do differently to make things work an see what needs to be done to get over some of these bumps in the road. I don't know how old you an your girlfriend are but if there's something that can be worked on then why not give it a chance an work on it. If when you talk to her an things don't sound like there gonna work then you make the call if you wanna end things but don't end them without talking to her about it. A relationship is a 2 way street not a one way dirt road. Info has to go back an forth for it to work.

How to break up with a crazy girlfriend?

So I've been dating this girl for 1 year now. At first she was normal, now she's becoming an obsessive individual. 2 months ago while watching a movie together, she said to me, ';you know, if I am dumped by my love like in the movie, I would either kill myself or cause bodily harm to my mate before killing myself';. I didn't know if she was kidding or not...





Now, I am scared.. how do I dump her?How to break up with a crazy girlfriend?
scary sh*t...um just let her down easy and watch every move you make. but tell someone about this so if something happens to you...they know who did it.How to break up with a crazy girlfriend?
You need to ask her exactly what she meant by that comment and tell her that it made you very uncomfortable. Does she have a history of depression? If she does, she needs to be seeing a professional Psychiatrist. If you want to break up with anyone, no matter what the reason is, you just need to be honest and do it. You can't own another person's actions after that, it is her decision how she handles it. It is your decision on how to go about breaking up, but you need to be honest about it. Honesty, although uncomfortable sometimes, is always the best policy.
Ignore her. Get away from her. Change your cell phone number. She's giving you crazy threats. If she makes that comment about Killing herself again, tell her you are now calling 911. They can deal with suicide, you can't. If she asks you to go somewhere or do something answer with this...';no, sorry can't';. Do not elaborate! Get off the phone ASAP. I have had to do this and it worked. Once I even had to move to a town 178 miles away! Whatever works, do it. Don't look back. I'm sure there is someone out there who is loving and caring and healthy.
Just tell her how you honestly feel then stay for a while and see if you see change! If not, then just end it, tell her you don't want this and drop everything. Just ignore her rage, walk away. You have to do what's best for you.
welL if yuh wanna dump her, nd not get kilLed try doing things for her to brake up with yuh.





-gross her out


-dnt pay attention to her


-disrespect her (alil]
tell her she is nuts.

Is it wrong to break up with my girlfriend because she had an abortion in the past?

It was two years ago before we met I have just found out ... I loved her before but now I feel nothing when I look at her, I don't think I can be with someone who would do something like that no matter how much I care about themIs it wrong to break up with my girlfriend because she had an abortion in the past?
Be sure you have the full story from her. Figure out how she feels about it now, if she regrets it, she's probably a stronger person for it. If she seems nonchalant or without any guilt, I would move on.Is it wrong to break up with my girlfriend because she had an abortion in the past?
WOW. That is the worst example of punishing someone over something they CANNOT CHANGE from the PAST that I have ever seen. It had nothing to do with you, it was a hard decision that SHE already is haunted by, and believe me, it was NOT an easy or fun thing to do. I have to give her CREDIT for KNOWING she was NOT ready to be a Mom.





No matter how emotional you want to get over something that frankly is none of your business, you need to know that she is a very strong and much more MATURE person than YOU.
umm....why do women get abortion? Oh yes....sometimes they get abortion because a dude injected his sperm into her and when he found out she was preggers he denied it was his and wanted nothing to do with it so this woman did not want to give birth to a baby who'd probably b fatherless which is unfair since it takes 2 to tango....the father was not willing to help her through her pregnancy...now i dont know u circumstance but that could b y she did it. women don't wake up one morning and decide to get an abortion...it is a serious decision they make and they are usually under a dire circumstance. please try not to judge her....i am sure u arent 100% innocent either and have probably done something in the past she doesn't know about.
Abortion is a ';funny'; word that stirs up emotions always. There are 2 groups.


1. It's okay to have one.


2. It's never okay to have one.





If you and her are a 1 and a 2 then this will always bug you, so it's best if you part ways. You don't want it to be 2 years from now and you are still trying to reconcile this in your own mind. (Meaning that you wasted your time with her).
tsk tsk tsk. Doesn't sound like you were really in love to me. But I guess I can put myself in your shoes and understand where your coming from. It goes against your morals, and its best to find someone who's morals match up with yours so you can have a full and healthy relationship. But if you really feel this way, break it off with her and don't pull her heart strings any longer.





P.S. You know 1 in 4 women will have at least one abortion before they turn 44? Just saying. She can't change her past all you can do is look towards the future.
dude i disagree with abortions but you say you loved her before? well did you? cos if you did it was conditional love...on the basis that you love her on the conditions you set her....unconditional love is real,but i think most of us would find it hard maintain...we are humans we judge each other but we also make MISTAKES.





just think if she hadnt had the abortion..would you 2 be together?








talk it through
If you don't love her anymore, then it's time to break up. I suggest you revise your opinion about abortions. Not all kinds of abortion are wrong. It would be nice to talk to your girlfriend about the circumstances that prompted her to have an abortion.
the girl made a mistake and at that time she felt that was her best option. if your that shallow not to forgive and forget then your right you should probably drop her because you dont deserve her.not saying her decision was right, but it was her decision at the time
its really her choice that shouldn't affect your relationship unless you were the one who got her pregnant and would be the father of the baby. if not its her choice shouldn't have anything to do with you
As much as I hate Abortion, it was in her past, BEFORE you.





What are the background details of the abortion etc.





unless I know the details for why she did it I couldn't give proper advice
You're going to break up with her for doing something that was none of your business to begin with? She deserves better than some anti-choice shallow twit like you. Hopefully she will find a real man who will respect her body and her choices.
It depends. Does she regret having an abortion? if yes then it's possible to forgive her but if not then chuck her as quickly as you can.
No it is not wrong... abortion is murder...
well yes. you have to learn to forgive so that u are also forgiven by God or others
move on then

When him and his girlfriend break up, should I go for him even though he's been an *** hole?

Around December me and this guy started talking..He was so sweet, he would drive every day to come see me and do nothing but chill, we had such a great connection.But I turned him down (which i regret) because I was just so nervous to be committed to him. He then started dating his ex.(i think to get over me). After he started dating her, I told him how I was crazy for him and regret turning him down. He was so surprised and told me that he wished he could be with me and he really liked me, but he had no reason to break up with his girl so he couldnt. A few weeks went by, and I found out that his girl CHEATED on him, but he took her back! this tells me that he really likes her. And lately, he's been being mean to me, trying to make me look dumb, i feel like because he knows I like him and he knows he can easily have me, he's just trying to shove it in my face. But what makes me wonder is, whenever me and him are alone I know he likes me,the connection is obvious, he flirts with me the WHOLE time. He has told me that he KNOWS him and his girlfriend are going to break up during the summer because she is moving away for college. (we're all seniors) So, the question is, IF he tries to get back with me over the summer, should I do it? even though he has been such an *** hole to me and chose HER over me.? idk what to do, please help me.When him and his girlfriend break up, should I go for him even though he's been an *** hole?
sweetie let it go. if he had an excuse to leave her and didn even take it then hes not gonna come to u. and even if he does than he still wnt stop talking to her witch will cause major problems. and its totally not worth ur time. try finding someone who is not an *** whole. trust me i dealt with an *** hole for 6 years. and trust me when i say this once an *** whole always an *** whole. move on

Break up with girlfriend?

ok so im 15 and i have been with my girlfriend for 2 years and she is my first girlfriend. i recently have noticed that we dont talk as much and were kind of drifting apart. i kind of want to let her down. the only problem is that i have never broken up with a girl before and i really stat to feel bad if someone is upset with something that i did. please give me some advice on how to let her down easy...


Break up with girlfriend?
well.. i would just be nice to her.. and say that you really don't want somebody right now.. but you do still care about her.. and if you ever need a friend to talk to that you are always there.. and don't go up to her in school or whereever.. and don't try to make up excuses like your grandma died.. just be stern.. and everything should be all good.. let me know how everything works out dixiedoll_450@live.com is my IM or you can just email me.. Break up with girlfriend?
ok assuming that you are her first love...it will not be easy any way you try...lotsa girls dont take it easy after only 2 months of dating,much less two years.





Maybe you can try to get her to ket YOU down easy,so u will be prepared and it will be easier on her. Maybe start distancing your self a little.





Dont give her the ';its not u,it's me '; speech...thats sucks.





It nice that u are concerned 4 her feelings.


Hmmm,I really cant think of anything good .sorry ;(
b4 you break up with her tell her that you feel like you are drifting apart. then go from ther

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