call her fat and run
tell her that you're moving to idaho
dont hang out with her making ur excuse ';im playing halo'; every time
tell her to get cancer
draw a picture of urself eating her favorite animal
eat her favorite animal
punch her
burn her whole wardrobe
go to dr phil
force her to watch happy tree friends
??????How would YOU break up with your girlfriend?
im not a guy.How would YOU break up with your girlfriend?
i would say ,,,,baby I'm sorry but this just isn't going to work with us.....why because i seen your picture last night on Americas most wanted ....
Here are some good ones:
http://www.bofads.com/stories/breakup2.h鈥?/a>
';Hey I just realised I'm not gay after all';.
If you're a guy, tell her you just realised you ARE gay.
the playing halo excuse.
happy tree friends is awesome! I love it!
=]
I'd write her a breakup poem or maybe a song.
Bill's Breakup Verse
- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
We've been going out some time
So this is hard to say
But I think that you and I
Have reached our final day
So while there will be thoughts of you
Always in my heart
I'll give you one last embrace before
We forever part
I may see you tomorrow though
I'm coming by at eight
Your younger sister asked me out
We're going on a date...
tsktsktsk...grow some ballz and tell her in person. gosh.
burn her whole wardrobe
I wouldn't, I have my dream girl!
not
Friday, August 20, 2010
How should I break up with my girlfriend?
I have been dating her for over a year. I'm 27 and she's 25, but she is incredibly childish and selfish, and I can't deal with it anymore. My main concern is that she has really bad anxiety/depression issues, and I'm concerned that this is going to have a huge impact on her. I do care about her, but I literally have to do everything for her, from picking her up every time we go out, to making her pizza at 3 A. M. when she's drunk, to getting her a glass of water which is ten feet away. She won't do anything herself, she just whines until I do it. She's incredibly needy and selfish, but I don't want to hurt her.How should I break up with my girlfriend?
That sucks, why did you date her for this long. I dunno what to tell you coz it would suck for her. Did you tell her that all these things she does bother you. Reason I ask is that, if you suddenly just tell her you are breaking up with her and she is oblivious to the fact that she is annoying and childish she would be in shock!
Then it would seem like you never gave her a chance to correct herself.
Honestly there is no good way to break up with someone and people are going to be upset and depressed but it is something she needs to deal with. You really can't do anything but if you know her friends may be you can keep in touch with her best friend to make sure she is doing ok.
Don't be with the girl coz you feel bad for her. Thats my advice :)
In your scenario, I'd say sucks to be her and sucks to be you but oh well relationships are not forever some are doomed to fail and some are meant to last forever.How should I break up with my girlfriend?
Be honest, but gentle. Tell her you feel she has become unhealthily dependent and you feel she needs to develop some self-reliance and independence. Or, you could say you've grown apart/want different things. A no-blame reason is best, preferably one she can't argue with. Her anxiety/depression is not your responsibility and she needs to get treatment. Maybe you could speak to a close friend of hers so they are ready to offer her support?
maybe the best way is to tell her the truth that wouldnt hurt her as bad as lying
have sex with another woman in her bed. it works everytime. Act like you are real sorry and tell her you couldn't help it. She will still break up with you but she is the one breaking up not you.
just say go away i want to break up with you u childish girl.........she made u hurt didnt she? u ARE not her slave boyfriend...why not find a nice gal in ur age..u said u cant deal with her just say ';im dumping u';
Some people confuse panic anxiety disorder with selfishness. It really isn't the same thing. If you cannot deal with the chemical imbalance that she has, I suggest you tell her right away so that she can find someone who will love her unconditionally, with all of her flaws.
Even though she has depression issues, all you can do is break up as gently but as firmly as you could. She holds her future in her own hands and needs to begin to deal with life. You are supposed to be her bf not the literal knight in shining armour.
Do not feel guilty for doing what's best for you. It makes no sense to stay with someone who is only taking from you because one day you will have no more to give someone else or even yourself.
A relationship is supposed to be two ppl who are giving to each other. One being strong in time when the other is weak. I am sure in your 'weak' moments you are alone, then what is her purpose in your life???
I know it is harsh but it is true. Just be gentle, let her know why, so that maybe she can change eventually. But do it, do not be taken in by false promises.
the trick is to make her think it is her Idea, do things like forget to call and don't have sex with her anymore, be a big pain in the *** so she breaks up with you
Just be firm with her.
She is manipulating you, and she's good at it. There is nothing you can do to make this easy. Just do it. But if your gonna do it. You need to walk away completely, no matter what she pulls. No contact. Good luck with that.
How did you manage to last this long? Be gentle and honest! Good luck!
wow
sounds like a little kid syndrome
is she the youngest in her family
wow she seems like she needs attention
i dealt with that before
and its hard to break away
but in due time u will realize she s not for u
cuz its not fair for u too pamper and be there for her every needs when she could simply do it herself
i suggest for u to talk about your situation
explain to her how u feel and how da the relationship is
if u she doesnt show progress then its time to leave and for her to watch
She's controlling you and you're right about wanting to get out of it. If she gets depressed about it then you should tell her parents so that they can help her through it. Break it to her gently, and don't bother to say anything about her being a selfish brat, that will just aggravate the situation. (I would suggest going to her parents first to tell them before she has the chance to bad mouth you) Good luck!
Do it easy, tell her that you just don't think that you guys are going any were, that you would like to be friends still(say it even if you don't want to be) its just not workin out. Don't point out any flaws that she has it will hurt her even more.
be with her and hope that one day she realizes u
If you love her, maybe you should talk about what bothers you; maybe she doesn't realize what she does.
If you've already done that, or you don't think there is any chance. If you're not in love, and the relationship isn't working; be honest and let her know that. Unfortunately, no matter what you say, its going to hurt her, and probably you a little bit. Just be kind, say everything without malice, and let go. You will find the perfect fishy that won't ***** and complain!
If you really want to end things with her you'll have to be firm - if she has problems with anxiety and depression she might use them against you to try and keep you. You have your own life to live and shouldn't have to do everything for her, relationships are about giving as well as taking. I know you don't want to hurt her but if you want to get on with your own life you're gonna have to! Good luck with it all anyway! :-)
I think you should tell her that you think it's time for you to move on but tell her that your still gonna be her friend. You dont really have to be her good friend just someone who is there to say hey im here if you wanna talk. Since she has the whole depression thing goin on. Dont worry about hurting her...she has to get over it sometime....it'll all work out tho...i promise.......it has to...Good luck............
Just dump her... She should learn to grow-up!!!
Tell her just the way you feel!! Honesty is always the policy, and sometimes the truth hurts!! But, you will feel much better about yourself!!
Ask yourself this question: If you really care about this person, what is the best solution to this problem. The answer is this: Tell her that she needs to grow up and be an adult, not a child AND Be truthfully.
As for the relationship, it takes two to make a relationship work and all relationship is build on respect, trust and communication!
Good Luck!
well have you tried talking to her about her attitude, if that doesn't work then start doing less things for her but don't be a jerk either and do nothing if she doesn't get the idea then dump her gently
get on with your life ! you are on the verge of having';WELCOME'; tattooed on your chest
You shouldn't stay with someone just because you're worried about how she'll react... remember, she was fine BEFORE you and she'll be okay afterwards. Honestly, can you even see yourself marrying this girl?
Yeah, that's what I thought.
Just dump her already and if it makes it easier, make her hate you by sleeping around or something... sure, it's not right to be a man whore, but it's not right to be with this chick either.
If you guys are not living together, just stop coming by, and let her know. If you are living together, as much as it hurt pack your stuff and have your key to your new place in hand, then tell her that you are leaving have a nice life. You only put up with behavior that you allow into your life. Its too short find someone that is more compatible with you. Regardless of what you do or say she will be hurt, tht is all apart of life hard knocks.
You have to wake her up complete! make her realize how much she is very silly. It will work if she woke up and realize how much she made a lot of mistakes, who knows shes the one after you make her from blind herself.
start taking in charge even tho men should run after gals LOL!!!! she is probely used to this runnin after er aint she!!!! so start sayin no stand up man enjoy life babe x x x x x
I would tell her next time it happens, ';This is the last time I am doing this for you. If you don't start taking care of yourself I am through.'; You might want to look in to the psychological term ';Learned Helplessness';.
Good luck.
That sucks, why did you date her for this long. I dunno what to tell you coz it would suck for her. Did you tell her that all these things she does bother you. Reason I ask is that, if you suddenly just tell her you are breaking up with her and she is oblivious to the fact that she is annoying and childish she would be in shock!
Then it would seem like you never gave her a chance to correct herself.
Honestly there is no good way to break up with someone and people are going to be upset and depressed but it is something she needs to deal with. You really can't do anything but if you know her friends may be you can keep in touch with her best friend to make sure she is doing ok.
Don't be with the girl coz you feel bad for her. Thats my advice :)
In your scenario, I'd say sucks to be her and sucks to be you but oh well relationships are not forever some are doomed to fail and some are meant to last forever.How should I break up with my girlfriend?
Be honest, but gentle. Tell her you feel she has become unhealthily dependent and you feel she needs to develop some self-reliance and independence. Or, you could say you've grown apart/want different things. A no-blame reason is best, preferably one she can't argue with. Her anxiety/depression is not your responsibility and she needs to get treatment. Maybe you could speak to a close friend of hers so they are ready to offer her support?
maybe the best way is to tell her the truth that wouldnt hurt her as bad as lying
have sex with another woman in her bed. it works everytime. Act like you are real sorry and tell her you couldn't help it. She will still break up with you but she is the one breaking up not you.
just say go away i want to break up with you u childish girl.........she made u hurt didnt she? u ARE not her slave boyfriend...why not find a nice gal in ur age..u said u cant deal with her just say ';im dumping u';
Some people confuse panic anxiety disorder with selfishness. It really isn't the same thing. If you cannot deal with the chemical imbalance that she has, I suggest you tell her right away so that she can find someone who will love her unconditionally, with all of her flaws.
Even though she has depression issues, all you can do is break up as gently but as firmly as you could. She holds her future in her own hands and needs to begin to deal with life. You are supposed to be her bf not the literal knight in shining armour.
Do not feel guilty for doing what's best for you. It makes no sense to stay with someone who is only taking from you because one day you will have no more to give someone else or even yourself.
A relationship is supposed to be two ppl who are giving to each other. One being strong in time when the other is weak. I am sure in your 'weak' moments you are alone, then what is her purpose in your life???
I know it is harsh but it is true. Just be gentle, let her know why, so that maybe she can change eventually. But do it, do not be taken in by false promises.
the trick is to make her think it is her Idea, do things like forget to call and don't have sex with her anymore, be a big pain in the *** so she breaks up with you
Just be firm with her.
She is manipulating you, and she's good at it. There is nothing you can do to make this easy. Just do it. But if your gonna do it. You need to walk away completely, no matter what she pulls. No contact. Good luck with that.
How did you manage to last this long? Be gentle and honest! Good luck!
wow
sounds like a little kid syndrome
is she the youngest in her family
wow she seems like she needs attention
i dealt with that before
and its hard to break away
but in due time u will realize she s not for u
cuz its not fair for u too pamper and be there for her every needs when she could simply do it herself
i suggest for u to talk about your situation
explain to her how u feel and how da the relationship is
if u she doesnt show progress then its time to leave and for her to watch
She's controlling you and you're right about wanting to get out of it. If she gets depressed about it then you should tell her parents so that they can help her through it. Break it to her gently, and don't bother to say anything about her being a selfish brat, that will just aggravate the situation. (I would suggest going to her parents first to tell them before she has the chance to bad mouth you) Good luck!
Do it easy, tell her that you just don't think that you guys are going any were, that you would like to be friends still(say it even if you don't want to be) its just not workin out. Don't point out any flaws that she has it will hurt her even more.
be with her and hope that one day she realizes u
If you love her, maybe you should talk about what bothers you; maybe she doesn't realize what she does.
If you've already done that, or you don't think there is any chance. If you're not in love, and the relationship isn't working; be honest and let her know that. Unfortunately, no matter what you say, its going to hurt her, and probably you a little bit. Just be kind, say everything without malice, and let go. You will find the perfect fishy that won't ***** and complain!
If you really want to end things with her you'll have to be firm - if she has problems with anxiety and depression she might use them against you to try and keep you. You have your own life to live and shouldn't have to do everything for her, relationships are about giving as well as taking. I know you don't want to hurt her but if you want to get on with your own life you're gonna have to! Good luck with it all anyway! :-)
I think you should tell her that you think it's time for you to move on but tell her that your still gonna be her friend. You dont really have to be her good friend just someone who is there to say hey im here if you wanna talk. Since she has the whole depression thing goin on. Dont worry about hurting her...she has to get over it sometime....it'll all work out tho...i promise.......it has to...Good luck............
Just dump her... She should learn to grow-up!!!
Tell her just the way you feel!! Honesty is always the policy, and sometimes the truth hurts!! But, you will feel much better about yourself!!
Ask yourself this question: If you really care about this person, what is the best solution to this problem. The answer is this: Tell her that she needs to grow up and be an adult, not a child AND Be truthfully.
As for the relationship, it takes two to make a relationship work and all relationship is build on respect, trust and communication!
Good Luck!
well have you tried talking to her about her attitude, if that doesn't work then start doing less things for her but don't be a jerk either and do nothing if she doesn't get the idea then dump her gently
get on with your life ! you are on the verge of having';WELCOME'; tattooed on your chest
You shouldn't stay with someone just because you're worried about how she'll react... remember, she was fine BEFORE you and she'll be okay afterwards. Honestly, can you even see yourself marrying this girl?
Yeah, that's what I thought.
Just dump her already and if it makes it easier, make her hate you by sleeping around or something... sure, it's not right to be a man whore, but it's not right to be with this chick either.
If you guys are not living together, just stop coming by, and let her know. If you are living together, as much as it hurt pack your stuff and have your key to your new place in hand, then tell her that you are leaving have a nice life. You only put up with behavior that you allow into your life. Its too short find someone that is more compatible with you. Regardless of what you do or say she will be hurt, tht is all apart of life hard knocks.
You have to wake her up complete! make her realize how much she is very silly. It will work if she woke up and realize how much she made a lot of mistakes, who knows shes the one after you make her from blind herself.
start taking in charge even tho men should run after gals LOL!!!! she is probely used to this runnin after er aint she!!!! so start sayin no stand up man enjoy life babe x x x x x
I would tell her next time it happens, ';This is the last time I am doing this for you. If you don't start taking care of yourself I am through.'; You might want to look in to the psychological term ';Learned Helplessness';.
Good luck.
How do I get this guy to break up with his girlfriend and go out with me?
I want this guy as my bf SOOOOOOOO bad!!!!
But he has a gf that breaks up with him ALL the time. PLEASE tell me how to break up him and his girlfriend. I WANT HIM SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO BAD!!!!!!How do I get this guy to break up with his girlfriend and go out with me?
just go up to him then kiss him... and tell him how you feel.... he will consider your point of view...How do I get this guy to break up with his girlfriend and go out with me?
It's not right to split up relationships. If they break up you can make a move but until then I think you should just leave it alone.
don't?
if he breaks up with her, because ';he has a gf that breaks up with him ALL the time'; then go after him
but don't try to split people up that just sucks
But he has a gf that breaks up with him ALL the time. PLEASE tell me how to break up him and his girlfriend. I WANT HIM SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO BAD!!!!!!How do I get this guy to break up with his girlfriend and go out with me?
just go up to him then kiss him... and tell him how you feel.... he will consider your point of view...How do I get this guy to break up with his girlfriend and go out with me?
It's not right to split up relationships. If they break up you can make a move but until then I think you should just leave it alone.
don't?
if he breaks up with her, because ';he has a gf that breaks up with him ALL the time'; then go after him
but don't try to split people up that just sucks
How do I get my guy friend to break up with his girlfriend?
So I've known this kid for a while, and he is a dating this girl that I cant stand. She is really mean to him. I dont want them to date anymore, because I like him. How do I get them to break up? I dont want to make it obvious that I want them over with, but I want it done. Any Suggestions.How do I get my guy friend to break up with his girlfriend?
Yea, get over yourself. If you made your question out to be with good intentions. How is she mean to him? If you think he deserves better then talk to him. But don't go being a ';home wrecker'; just because you like the guy and you don't want him with anyone. If that's not the case then great just be there for him and talk to him. because if you try to destroy what he has and he figures it out that it's you doing it. You will lose your friend. If he likes her, Then you just might have to get over it and try to like her too for your friends sake. Or hell when she's being mean just tell her, why are you being such a mean biyotch.How do I get my guy friend to break up with his girlfriend?
Sleep with him and then tell her about it. If you are like 12 then stop your crap and get over it.
Why do you want to be a bad girl?if he is happy with her and he consider you just a friend move out. Do not let the jealousy eats you.You will meet that one who deserve you.
Alison, the best way to get him to break up with her, is to make your relationship with him be cooler, more fun, deeper, and hotter than their relationship. Basically try to be as cool as possible with him, and give him good compliments often (without letting him pick up on the fact that you are doing so). Make him feel really good, and eventually he'll realize you are better person for him to date. Also this is key: as soon as you notice him wanting you a bit, or liking you a bit, play hard to get. Don't return his phone call one night. That way he'll realize that when he can't have you, he hangs out with his less fun and less cool girlfriend.
If that doesn't work, try getting him to come out with your friends, and make him seem like the hottest guy ever with your friends beforehand. That way when he comes to hang out, he feels amazing because all of your friends now like him. Best of luck.scene hair live.com
Yea, get over yourself. If you made your question out to be with good intentions. How is she mean to him? If you think he deserves better then talk to him. But don't go being a ';home wrecker'; just because you like the guy and you don't want him with anyone. If that's not the case then great just be there for him and talk to him. because if you try to destroy what he has and he figures it out that it's you doing it. You will lose your friend. If he likes her, Then you just might have to get over it and try to like her too for your friends sake. Or hell when she's being mean just tell her, why are you being such a mean biyotch.How do I get my guy friend to break up with his girlfriend?
Sleep with him and then tell her about it. If you are like 12 then stop your crap and get over it.
Why do you want to be a bad girl?if he is happy with her and he consider you just a friend move out. Do not let the jealousy eats you.You will meet that one who deserve you.
Alison, the best way to get him to break up with her, is to make your relationship with him be cooler, more fun, deeper, and hotter than their relationship. Basically try to be as cool as possible with him, and give him good compliments often (without letting him pick up on the fact that you are doing so). Make him feel really good, and eventually he'll realize you are better person for him to date. Also this is key: as soon as you notice him wanting you a bit, or liking you a bit, play hard to get. Don't return his phone call one night. That way he'll realize that when he can't have you, he hangs out with his less fun and less cool girlfriend.
If that doesn't work, try getting him to come out with your friends, and make him seem like the hottest guy ever with your friends beforehand. That way when he comes to hang out, he feels amazing because all of your friends now like him. Best of luck.
How do you break up with your boyfriend/ girlfriend?
I don't need to know how i should. Just how do you?
A) Text
B) Have someone else do it for you
C) Over the phone
D) In person
E) Note
F) Myspace, Facebook, IM ect.
G) Just dont talk to them
H) Some other way
Put the letter and answer please
( This is a bit like a poll)
PLEASE ANSWER TRUTHFULLY(:How do you break up with your boyfriend/ girlfriend?
In person, its better if you at least give him respect and say it infront of his faceHow do you break up with your boyfriend/ girlfriend?
G
Hands down in person. Everything else is too hurtful, detached and humiliating. Whenever you think about questions like these and dnt know whats the best way to go, just think what would you prefer. And you will see though all of the options will hurt the other person only one of them is decent. Good Luck.
C) have someone else do it for me
honestly, i know theres gonna be a lotta critisism for this, but i would say A.) text, because i find that that person can cry, or scream, or be upset and they still in theyre mind feel good in knowing the person that broke up with them never saw them broken if they were. hope i helped :)
do it IN PERSON!!! if you are going to break someone's heart do it FACE TO FACE, and don't stay to see the mess, just do it, and take it out of your heart, and tell the truth, and make sure to end it!!
in person
D) In person
Every other option is just rude and gutless.
There is no painless way, but the best way is to do it face to face, and be honest. A lie will always surface, and at least after the anger and hurt subside, there will still be respect and trust which is, above all.
d) tell them face to face is the only way on there besides stuff little kids would do
D.) In person
A) Text
B) Have someone else do it for you
C) Over the phone
D) In person
E) Note
F) Myspace, Facebook, IM ect.
G) Just dont talk to them
H) Some other way
Put the letter and answer please
( This is a bit like a poll)
PLEASE ANSWER TRUTHFULLY(:How do you break up with your boyfriend/ girlfriend?
In person, its better if you at least give him respect and say it infront of his faceHow do you break up with your boyfriend/ girlfriend?
G
Hands down in person. Everything else is too hurtful, detached and humiliating. Whenever you think about questions like these and dnt know whats the best way to go, just think what would you prefer. And you will see though all of the options will hurt the other person only one of them is decent. Good Luck.
C) have someone else do it for me
honestly, i know theres gonna be a lotta critisism for this, but i would say A.) text, because i find that that person can cry, or scream, or be upset and they still in theyre mind feel good in knowing the person that broke up with them never saw them broken if they were. hope i helped :)
do it IN PERSON!!! if you are going to break someone's heart do it FACE TO FACE, and don't stay to see the mess, just do it, and take it out of your heart, and tell the truth, and make sure to end it!!
in person
D) In person
Every other option is just rude and gutless.
There is no painless way, but the best way is to do it face to face, and be honest. A lie will always surface, and at least after the anger and hurt subside, there will still be respect and trust which is, above all.
d) tell them face to face is the only way on there besides stuff little kids would do
D.) In person
How can i get my friend to break up with his girlfriend? ?
I have always liked my best friend but now he goes out with this girl.
I think he has always liked me but I havent shown my feeling for him because i was scared. Recently ive been a lot more flirty.
How can i get them to break up?! i know this sounds bad but i cant control my crush on him any longer!!How can i get my friend to break up with his girlfriend? ?
If you really respect him as a friend you'll WAIT until they actually break up themselves. If they never break up then so be it.How can i get my friend to break up with his girlfriend? ?
What type of this person does this make you out to be if you are willing to ruin a truly healthy relationship just because you want the man--because you weren't fast enough to make the move first? I mean, think about it--you snooze, you lose.
Now think about what type of friend this makes you to hurt his feelings just for the possibility that he will may--may ask you out?
I have wanted to break up several relationships regarding my ex-boyfriend--but I never did. Thing is, I found it more important to do everything I can to make him happy than it was for me to try to gain a relationship he didn't really want. To tell you the truth, I was quite certain that if their relationship failed and I was the cost--He would find out about it and our friendship would have been done forever.
You willing to risk that?
just WAIT. if he really likes you...even if you don't do anything, they will break up in no time. Don't try to make the break up look like it's your fault. ..Don't even flirt too much. If they broke up because you keep on flirting with the guy, then more or less u'll just cause a big trouble....just be PATIENT =)
when a man really likes a woman he (usually) does not go out with other girls. he does not like you erotically. final. don't destroy his personal life!
P.S. it is an offense for the word ';friend'; to be used by persons like you
If you care about him as muchas you say you do you wouldn't even be thinking about breaking them up. You sound like a selfish person and I think you need to take a step back. If he is happy why should you or would you ruin his happiness???
instead of doing something to get him to break up with his girl,I think you should just come clean and let jim know how you feel.Let him decide.You never know,you might be surprised by his response.
Oh just leave them alone. Im sure they wont be together forever. Its your fault for not showing your feelings before he started dating this girl. Deal with it until they break up. Dont sabotage their relationship.
If u have respect for him wait don't become a problem and break something up for no reason other than yourself and just have patients
I think he has always liked me but I havent shown my feeling for him because i was scared. Recently ive been a lot more flirty.
How can i get them to break up?! i know this sounds bad but i cant control my crush on him any longer!!How can i get my friend to break up with his girlfriend? ?
If you really respect him as a friend you'll WAIT until they actually break up themselves. If they never break up then so be it.How can i get my friend to break up with his girlfriend? ?
What type of this person does this make you out to be if you are willing to ruin a truly healthy relationship just because you want the man--because you weren't fast enough to make the move first? I mean, think about it--you snooze, you lose.
Now think about what type of friend this makes you to hurt his feelings just for the possibility that he will may--may ask you out?
I have wanted to break up several relationships regarding my ex-boyfriend--but I never did. Thing is, I found it more important to do everything I can to make him happy than it was for me to try to gain a relationship he didn't really want. To tell you the truth, I was quite certain that if their relationship failed and I was the cost--He would find out about it and our friendship would have been done forever.
You willing to risk that?
just WAIT. if he really likes you...even if you don't do anything, they will break up in no time. Don't try to make the break up look like it's your fault. ..Don't even flirt too much. If they broke up because you keep on flirting with the guy, then more or less u'll just cause a big trouble....just be PATIENT =)
when a man really likes a woman he (usually) does not go out with other girls. he does not like you erotically. final. don't destroy his personal life!
P.S. it is an offense for the word ';friend'; to be used by persons like you
If you care about him as muchas you say you do you wouldn't even be thinking about breaking them up. You sound like a selfish person and I think you need to take a step back. If he is happy why should you or would you ruin his happiness???
instead of doing something to get him to break up with his girl,I think you should just come clean and let jim know how you feel.Let him decide.You never know,you might be surprised by his response.
Oh just leave them alone. Im sure they wont be together forever. Its your fault for not showing your feelings before he started dating this girl. Deal with it until they break up. Dont sabotage their relationship.
If u have respect for him wait don't become a problem and break something up for no reason other than yourself and just have patients
How to deal with a unique break-up issue?
My girlfriend broke up with me today and she stated that she really liked me but she didn't want a boyfriend at the beginning of the year. I really like her but how should I deal with her considering we have many classes together. I don't want to drive her away from a future relationship.How to deal with a unique break-up issue?
Give her a while to adjust to the new school year and explore options with other guys. If you really like her though remind her that you're always there and you care about her. When you have class together be friendly towards her but don't come on too heavy or she won't feel comfortable around you.How to deal with a unique break-up issue?
i hate it when guys say that to me!!
they always end up getting a gf the next day.
so maybe you should just be friends with her, and then at least try to move on. thats what im doing...except im not friends with him cuz of some of the stuff he said about me...which is really rude, but whatever.
good luck, i know it sucks that you have to see her everyday and it may hurt but dont let her know its bothering youu.
she could take advantage of that. thats what my ex is doing to me.
Buddy play this one! Be the coolest guy there make friends with every one and you will ether get her back or you will get so much more! Friends, and they will always be there for you like mine have been there for me!
When you get older you will understand that I mean when I say the worl has many fish in the sea!
Look here : http://www.flurtbook.com
';doesn't want a bf at the begining of the year';
i find that hard to believe it looks cool to have a bf at the start of the year you should see all the kids making out at my school already
It kind of sounds like one of those lame break up excuses. Why doesn't she want a boyfriend at the start of the year ? Try to find out that answer and take it from that point.
Maybe you should just try and be friends with her because that way you are still close but she doesn't feel pressured either
make her jelous.
start flirtiing with another girl.
its a lame excuse she gave you so make her want you back.
Give her a while to adjust to the new school year and explore options with other guys. If you really like her though remind her that you're always there and you care about her. When you have class together be friendly towards her but don't come on too heavy or she won't feel comfortable around you.How to deal with a unique break-up issue?
i hate it when guys say that to me!!
they always end up getting a gf the next day.
so maybe you should just be friends with her, and then at least try to move on. thats what im doing...except im not friends with him cuz of some of the stuff he said about me...which is really rude, but whatever.
good luck, i know it sucks that you have to see her everyday and it may hurt but dont let her know its bothering youu.
she could take advantage of that. thats what my ex is doing to me.
Buddy play this one! Be the coolest guy there make friends with every one and you will ether get her back or you will get so much more! Friends, and they will always be there for you like mine have been there for me!
When you get older you will understand that I mean when I say the worl has many fish in the sea!
Look here : http://www.flurtbook.com
';doesn't want a bf at the begining of the year';
i find that hard to believe it looks cool to have a bf at the start of the year you should see all the kids making out at my school already
It kind of sounds like one of those lame break up excuses. Why doesn't she want a boyfriend at the start of the year ? Try to find out that answer and take it from that point.
Maybe you should just try and be friends with her because that way you are still close but she doesn't feel pressured either
make her jelous.
start flirtiing with another girl.
its a lame excuse she gave you so make her want you back.
How to handle stress if me and my girlfriend break up again?
me and my girlfriend have been together for a year and 4 months.she has my name tatooed on her back.We live together in nyc.Our relationship is going good now and everything but one time about 5 months ago we had broke up for 2 weeks(long story).
When we broke up I aint think we was gonna wind up back together.I was real stressed,never been that stressed before in my life.I guess cuz it was my first time in love.I was barely getting any sleep,only about 2 hours of sleep.I also couldnt watch certain tv shows or movies cuz I used to think about her when I did.I guess cuz i was so used to living with her.Its like almost anything I did,I would somehow reminiscence about her.
Im trying to find a way,just in case we was to break up again,how would I handle the stress?I sometimes wonder how do people be getting over 5 and 10 year relationships.how should I handle the stress if that happenes againHow to handle stress if me and my girlfriend break up again?
You had a hard time when you broke up once. True !!
But what you are going through right now can be more painful. Thinking about the past experience a lot can make that particular experience more painful.
What you are feeling right now can not be termed as Stress Control Management for future.. Its called INSECURITY.
You love ur gf. true. You cant live without her. true. You couldnt sleep. true. But whats wrong is.. Your constant thoughts about the break up.
It wont allow you to live happily. The moments of life which can be the most beautiful ones, You are missing out on it.
I cant say YOU WONT EVER BREAK UP. but tell me.. what if you never broke up ? You will be wasting your whole life thinking what will happen if she will leave you.
We live once. You wont get another lifetime to improve. Its this life only where you will have to show ur care and love rather than thinking the negative part.
You have left her. Your subconscious mind has already accepted that You are going to break up. why ? Man.. You havent broke up. but mentally you have.
Think positive ( i hate this term ) but still.. try to keep calm. You are on her back forever ( tattoed ) Do not worry..
Life is good. Life is beautiful. Get out of your self made troubles. Get your Girl. Make her feel your love.
Take careHow to handle stress if me and my girlfriend break up again?
keep youtself occupied but if you keep thinking that your gonna get yourself stressed out trying to prevent it. you might even start trying to be too perfect and push her away. BE YOURSELF AND DON'T WORRY.what good does worrying about something you dont even know will happen do?
I am in a three year relationship and this is from personal experience:
When you have been with someone for so long, you feel that you are ';safe'; -your name on her back makes you feel ';safe';-the fact that you live together makes you feel ';safe';. I would assume that unless something happens, you two would be together and maintain a normal relationship.
If something happened and for some reason, you didn't feel that ';safe'; feeling, everything you described is a normal reaction.
My advice to you, is know that you would be okay without your girlfriend. While having her in your life is an extremely positive thing and has brought a lot of love and happiness to you, you need to honestly feel that you would be okay without that. If you are so dependent on her being there, you may ultimately push her away, or let her feel that she can take advantage of you. There needs to be a certain balance and I would be curious to know if she was the same way when you two broke up?
Having a bf/gf is a wonderful thing. Just try not to feel like your whole world is over if something happens again. Do things for you and create your own life so that you can keep living it regardless of if she is there or not.
You are borrowing trouble. She did not break up with you so why are you worrying about it? Sounds like you are stressing yourself over something that didn't happen.
Just enjoy your life with her. If you break up at some later time, you will deal with it when it happens. Relax.
DONT BREAK UP problem solved
When we broke up I aint think we was gonna wind up back together.I was real stressed,never been that stressed before in my life.I guess cuz it was my first time in love.I was barely getting any sleep,only about 2 hours of sleep.I also couldnt watch certain tv shows or movies cuz I used to think about her when I did.I guess cuz i was so used to living with her.Its like almost anything I did,I would somehow reminiscence about her.
Im trying to find a way,just in case we was to break up again,how would I handle the stress?I sometimes wonder how do people be getting over 5 and 10 year relationships.how should I handle the stress if that happenes againHow to handle stress if me and my girlfriend break up again?
You had a hard time when you broke up once. True !!
But what you are going through right now can be more painful. Thinking about the past experience a lot can make that particular experience more painful.
What you are feeling right now can not be termed as Stress Control Management for future.. Its called INSECURITY.
You love ur gf. true. You cant live without her. true. You couldnt sleep. true. But whats wrong is.. Your constant thoughts about the break up.
It wont allow you to live happily. The moments of life which can be the most beautiful ones, You are missing out on it.
I cant say YOU WONT EVER BREAK UP. but tell me.. what if you never broke up ? You will be wasting your whole life thinking what will happen if she will leave you.
We live once. You wont get another lifetime to improve. Its this life only where you will have to show ur care and love rather than thinking the negative part.
You have left her. Your subconscious mind has already accepted that You are going to break up. why ? Man.. You havent broke up. but mentally you have.
Think positive ( i hate this term ) but still.. try to keep calm. You are on her back forever ( tattoed ) Do not worry..
Life is good. Life is beautiful. Get out of your self made troubles. Get your Girl. Make her feel your love.
Take careHow to handle stress if me and my girlfriend break up again?
keep youtself occupied but if you keep thinking that your gonna get yourself stressed out trying to prevent it. you might even start trying to be too perfect and push her away. BE YOURSELF AND DON'T WORRY.what good does worrying about something you dont even know will happen do?
I am in a three year relationship and this is from personal experience:
When you have been with someone for so long, you feel that you are ';safe'; -your name on her back makes you feel ';safe';-the fact that you live together makes you feel ';safe';. I would assume that unless something happens, you two would be together and maintain a normal relationship.
If something happened and for some reason, you didn't feel that ';safe'; feeling, everything you described is a normal reaction.
My advice to you, is know that you would be okay without your girlfriend. While having her in your life is an extremely positive thing and has brought a lot of love and happiness to you, you need to honestly feel that you would be okay without that. If you are so dependent on her being there, you may ultimately push her away, or let her feel that she can take advantage of you. There needs to be a certain balance and I would be curious to know if she was the same way when you two broke up?
Having a bf/gf is a wonderful thing. Just try not to feel like your whole world is over if something happens again. Do things for you and create your own life so that you can keep living it regardless of if she is there or not.
You are borrowing trouble. She did not break up with you so why are you worrying about it? Sounds like you are stressing yourself over something that didn't happen.
Just enjoy your life with her. If you break up at some later time, you will deal with it when it happens. Relax.
DONT BREAK UP problem solved
Should i break up with my girlfriend?
She means so much to me i think i love her... but we have been going through tough times its so hard to get through this its like we hit a wall and we don't know how to get over it its so frustrating i feel like i don't want to do anything anymore because im so worried about it i don't want to give up on her and she doesn't want to give up on me but idk what to do its been so hard. any advice?Should i break up with my girlfriend?
You guys sound like you need a long talk. Figure out exactly what's going wrong on both ends, and try to fix them before you end it. Trust me, if you end it before trying to fix it, you will regret it. I've done that. I've also had to have some talks with my boyfriend when it felt like we had hit a wall, and we're in a super happy relationship now. :) Talk to her before you make any drastic decisions.Should i break up with my girlfriend?
You must always remember that no relationship is perfect, your always going to have your ups and downs. Your just a little bit in a rough spot right now. Don't worry too much about it, just keep moving forward. Be strong and be there for each other and try to be understanding as much as possible.
If she's as important as you say she is to you then maybe you should sit down with her an talk about this with her an see what you guys might be able to do differently to make things work an see what needs to be done to get over some of these bumps in the road. I don't know how old you an your girlfriend are but if there's something that can be worked on then why not give it a chance an work on it. If when you talk to her an things don't sound like there gonna work then you make the call if you wanna end things but don't end them without talking to her about it. A relationship is a 2 way street not a one way dirt road. Info has to go back an forth for it to work.
You guys sound like you need a long talk. Figure out exactly what's going wrong on both ends, and try to fix them before you end it. Trust me, if you end it before trying to fix it, you will regret it. I've done that. I've also had to have some talks with my boyfriend when it felt like we had hit a wall, and we're in a super happy relationship now. :) Talk to her before you make any drastic decisions.Should i break up with my girlfriend?
You must always remember that no relationship is perfect, your always going to have your ups and downs. Your just a little bit in a rough spot right now. Don't worry too much about it, just keep moving forward. Be strong and be there for each other and try to be understanding as much as possible.
If she's as important as you say she is to you then maybe you should sit down with her an talk about this with her an see what you guys might be able to do differently to make things work an see what needs to be done to get over some of these bumps in the road. I don't know how old you an your girlfriend are but if there's something that can be worked on then why not give it a chance an work on it. If when you talk to her an things don't sound like there gonna work then you make the call if you wanna end things but don't end them without talking to her about it. A relationship is a 2 way street not a one way dirt road. Info has to go back an forth for it to work.
How to break up with a crazy girlfriend?
So I've been dating this girl for 1 year now. At first she was normal, now she's becoming an obsessive individual. 2 months ago while watching a movie together, she said to me, ';you know, if I am dumped by my love like in the movie, I would either kill myself or cause bodily harm to my mate before killing myself';. I didn't know if she was kidding or not...
Now, I am scared.. how do I dump her?How to break up with a crazy girlfriend?
scary sh*t...um just let her down easy and watch every move you make. but tell someone about this so if something happens to you...they know who did it.How to break up with a crazy girlfriend?
You need to ask her exactly what she meant by that comment and tell her that it made you very uncomfortable. Does she have a history of depression? If she does, she needs to be seeing a professional Psychiatrist. If you want to break up with anyone, no matter what the reason is, you just need to be honest and do it. You can't own another person's actions after that, it is her decision how she handles it. It is your decision on how to go about breaking up, but you need to be honest about it. Honesty, although uncomfortable sometimes, is always the best policy.
Ignore her. Get away from her. Change your cell phone number. She's giving you crazy threats. If she makes that comment about Killing herself again, tell her you are now calling 911. They can deal with suicide, you can't. If she asks you to go somewhere or do something answer with this...';no, sorry can't';. Do not elaborate! Get off the phone ASAP. I have had to do this and it worked. Once I even had to move to a town 178 miles away! Whatever works, do it. Don't look back. I'm sure there is someone out there who is loving and caring and healthy.
Just tell her how you honestly feel then stay for a while and see if you see change! If not, then just end it, tell her you don't want this and drop everything. Just ignore her rage, walk away. You have to do what's best for you.
welL if yuh wanna dump her, nd not get kilLed try doing things for her to brake up with yuh.
-gross her out
-dnt pay attention to her
-disrespect her (alil]
tell her she is nuts.
Now, I am scared.. how do I dump her?How to break up with a crazy girlfriend?
scary sh*t...um just let her down easy and watch every move you make. but tell someone about this so if something happens to you...they know who did it.How to break up with a crazy girlfriend?
You need to ask her exactly what she meant by that comment and tell her that it made you very uncomfortable. Does she have a history of depression? If she does, she needs to be seeing a professional Psychiatrist. If you want to break up with anyone, no matter what the reason is, you just need to be honest and do it. You can't own another person's actions after that, it is her decision how she handles it. It is your decision on how to go about breaking up, but you need to be honest about it. Honesty, although uncomfortable sometimes, is always the best policy.
Ignore her. Get away from her. Change your cell phone number. She's giving you crazy threats. If she makes that comment about Killing herself again, tell her you are now calling 911. They can deal with suicide, you can't. If she asks you to go somewhere or do something answer with this...';no, sorry can't';. Do not elaborate! Get off the phone ASAP. I have had to do this and it worked. Once I even had to move to a town 178 miles away! Whatever works, do it. Don't look back. I'm sure there is someone out there who is loving and caring and healthy.
Just tell her how you honestly feel then stay for a while and see if you see change! If not, then just end it, tell her you don't want this and drop everything. Just ignore her rage, walk away. You have to do what's best for you.
welL if yuh wanna dump her, nd not get kilLed try doing things for her to brake up with yuh.
-gross her out
-dnt pay attention to her
-disrespect her (alil]
tell her she is nuts.
How to deal with a unique break-up issue?
My girlfriend broke up with me today and she stated that she really liked me but she didn't want a boyfriend at the beginning of the year. I really like her but how should I deal with her considering we have many classes together. I don't want to drive her away from a future relationship.How to deal with a unique break-up issue?
Give her a while to adjust to the new school year and explore options with other guys. If you really like her though remind her that you're always there and you care about her. When you have class together be friendly towards her but don't come on too heavy or she won't feel comfortable around you.How to deal with a unique break-up issue?
i hate it when guys say that to me!!
they always end up getting a gf the next day.
so maybe you should just be friends with her, and then at least try to move on. thats what im doing...except im not friends with him cuz of some of the stuff he said about me...which is really rude, but whatever.
good luck, i know it sucks that you have to see her everyday and it may hurt but dont let her know its bothering youu.
she could take advantage of that. thats what my ex is doing to me.
Buddy play this one! Be the coolest guy there make friends with every one and you will ether get her back or you will get so much more! Friends, and they will always be there for you like mine have been there for me!
When you get older you will understand that I mean when I say the worl has many fish in the sea!
Look here : http://www.flurtbook.com
';doesn't want a bf at the begining of the year';
i find that hard to believe it looks cool to have a bf at the start of the year you should see all the kids making out at my school already
It kind of sounds like one of those lame break up excuses. Why doesn't she want a boyfriend at the start of the year ? Try to find out that answer and take it from that point.
Maybe you should just try and be friends with her because that way you are still close but she doesn't feel pressured either
make her jelous.
start flirtiing with another girl.
its a lame excuse she gave you so make her want you back.scene hair triumph
Give her a while to adjust to the new school year and explore options with other guys. If you really like her though remind her that you're always there and you care about her. When you have class together be friendly towards her but don't come on too heavy or she won't feel comfortable around you.How to deal with a unique break-up issue?
i hate it when guys say that to me!!
they always end up getting a gf the next day.
so maybe you should just be friends with her, and then at least try to move on. thats what im doing...except im not friends with him cuz of some of the stuff he said about me...which is really rude, but whatever.
good luck, i know it sucks that you have to see her everyday and it may hurt but dont let her know its bothering youu.
she could take advantage of that. thats what my ex is doing to me.
Buddy play this one! Be the coolest guy there make friends with every one and you will ether get her back or you will get so much more! Friends, and they will always be there for you like mine have been there for me!
When you get older you will understand that I mean when I say the worl has many fish in the sea!
Look here : http://www.flurtbook.com
';doesn't want a bf at the begining of the year';
i find that hard to believe it looks cool to have a bf at the start of the year you should see all the kids making out at my school already
It kind of sounds like one of those lame break up excuses. Why doesn't she want a boyfriend at the start of the year ? Try to find out that answer and take it from that point.
Maybe you should just try and be friends with her because that way you are still close but she doesn't feel pressured either
make her jelous.
start flirtiing with another girl.
its a lame excuse she gave you so make her want you back.
How to handle stress if me and my girlfriend break up again?
me and my girlfriend have been together for a year and 4 months.she has my name tatooed on her back.We live together in nyc.Our relationship is going good now and everything but one time about 5 months ago we had broke up for 2 weeks(long story).
When we broke up I aint think we was gonna wind up back together.I was real stressed,never been that stressed before in my life.I guess cuz it was my first time in love.I was barely getting any sleep,only about 2 hours of sleep.I also couldnt watch certain tv shows or movies cuz I used to think about her when I did.I guess cuz i was so used to living with her.Its like almost anything I did,I would somehow reminiscence about her.
Im trying to find a way,just in case we was to break up again,how would I handle the stress?I sometimes wonder how do people be getting over 5 and 10 year relationships.how should I handle the stress if that happenes againHow to handle stress if me and my girlfriend break up again?
You had a hard time when you broke up once. True !!
But what you are going through right now can be more painful. Thinking about the past experience a lot can make that particular experience more painful.
What you are feeling right now can not be termed as Stress Control Management for future.. Its called INSECURITY.
You love ur gf. true. You cant live without her. true. You couldnt sleep. true. But whats wrong is.. Your constant thoughts about the break up.
It wont allow you to live happily. The moments of life which can be the most beautiful ones, You are missing out on it.
I cant say YOU WONT EVER BREAK UP. but tell me.. what if you never broke up ? You will be wasting your whole life thinking what will happen if she will leave you.
We live once. You wont get another lifetime to improve. Its this life only where you will have to show ur care and love rather than thinking the negative part.
You have left her. Your subconscious mind has already accepted that You are going to break up. why ? Man.. You havent broke up. but mentally you have.
Think positive ( i hate this term ) but still.. try to keep calm. You are on her back forever ( tattoed ) Do not worry..
Life is good. Life is beautiful. Get out of your self made troubles. Get your Girl. Make her feel your love.
Take careHow to handle stress if me and my girlfriend break up again?
keep youtself occupied but if you keep thinking that your gonna get yourself stressed out trying to prevent it. you might even start trying to be too perfect and push her away. BE YOURSELF AND DON'T WORRY.what good does worrying about something you dont even know will happen do?
I am in a three year relationship and this is from personal experience:
When you have been with someone for so long, you feel that you are ';safe'; -your name on her back makes you feel ';safe';-the fact that you live together makes you feel ';safe';. I would assume that unless something happens, you two would be together and maintain a normal relationship.
If something happened and for some reason, you didn't feel that ';safe'; feeling, everything you described is a normal reaction.
My advice to you, is know that you would be okay without your girlfriend. While having her in your life is an extremely positive thing and has brought a lot of love and happiness to you, you need to honestly feel that you would be okay without that. If you are so dependent on her being there, you may ultimately push her away, or let her feel that she can take advantage of you. There needs to be a certain balance and I would be curious to know if she was the same way when you two broke up?
Having a bf/gf is a wonderful thing. Just try not to feel like your whole world is over if something happens again. Do things for you and create your own life so that you can keep living it regardless of if she is there or not.
You are borrowing trouble. She did not break up with you so why are you worrying about it? Sounds like you are stressing yourself over something that didn't happen.
Just enjoy your life with her. If you break up at some later time, you will deal with it when it happens. Relax.
DONT BREAK UP problem solved
When we broke up I aint think we was gonna wind up back together.I was real stressed,never been that stressed before in my life.I guess cuz it was my first time in love.I was barely getting any sleep,only about 2 hours of sleep.I also couldnt watch certain tv shows or movies cuz I used to think about her when I did.I guess cuz i was so used to living with her.Its like almost anything I did,I would somehow reminiscence about her.
Im trying to find a way,just in case we was to break up again,how would I handle the stress?I sometimes wonder how do people be getting over 5 and 10 year relationships.how should I handle the stress if that happenes againHow to handle stress if me and my girlfriend break up again?
You had a hard time when you broke up once. True !!
But what you are going through right now can be more painful. Thinking about the past experience a lot can make that particular experience more painful.
What you are feeling right now can not be termed as Stress Control Management for future.. Its called INSECURITY.
You love ur gf. true. You cant live without her. true. You couldnt sleep. true. But whats wrong is.. Your constant thoughts about the break up.
It wont allow you to live happily. The moments of life which can be the most beautiful ones, You are missing out on it.
I cant say YOU WONT EVER BREAK UP. but tell me.. what if you never broke up ? You will be wasting your whole life thinking what will happen if she will leave you.
We live once. You wont get another lifetime to improve. Its this life only where you will have to show ur care and love rather than thinking the negative part.
You have left her. Your subconscious mind has already accepted that You are going to break up. why ? Man.. You havent broke up. but mentally you have.
Think positive ( i hate this term ) but still.. try to keep calm. You are on her back forever ( tattoed ) Do not worry..
Life is good. Life is beautiful. Get out of your self made troubles. Get your Girl. Make her feel your love.
Take careHow to handle stress if me and my girlfriend break up again?
keep youtself occupied but if you keep thinking that your gonna get yourself stressed out trying to prevent it. you might even start trying to be too perfect and push her away. BE YOURSELF AND DON'T WORRY.what good does worrying about something you dont even know will happen do?
I am in a three year relationship and this is from personal experience:
When you have been with someone for so long, you feel that you are ';safe'; -your name on her back makes you feel ';safe';-the fact that you live together makes you feel ';safe';. I would assume that unless something happens, you two would be together and maintain a normal relationship.
If something happened and for some reason, you didn't feel that ';safe'; feeling, everything you described is a normal reaction.
My advice to you, is know that you would be okay without your girlfriend. While having her in your life is an extremely positive thing and has brought a lot of love and happiness to you, you need to honestly feel that you would be okay without that. If you are so dependent on her being there, you may ultimately push her away, or let her feel that she can take advantage of you. There needs to be a certain balance and I would be curious to know if she was the same way when you two broke up?
Having a bf/gf is a wonderful thing. Just try not to feel like your whole world is over if something happens again. Do things for you and create your own life so that you can keep living it regardless of if she is there or not.
You are borrowing trouble. She did not break up with you so why are you worrying about it? Sounds like you are stressing yourself over something that didn't happen.
Just enjoy your life with her. If you break up at some later time, you will deal with it when it happens. Relax.
DONT BREAK UP problem solved
Should i break up with my girlfriend?
She means so much to me i think i love her... but we have been going through tough times its so hard to get through this its like we hit a wall and we don't know how to get over it its so frustrating i feel like i don't want to do anything anymore because im so worried about it i don't want to give up on her and she doesn't want to give up on me but idk what to do its been so hard. any advice?Should i break up with my girlfriend?
You guys sound like you need a long talk. Figure out exactly what's going wrong on both ends, and try to fix them before you end it. Trust me, if you end it before trying to fix it, you will regret it. I've done that. I've also had to have some talks with my boyfriend when it felt like we had hit a wall, and we're in a super happy relationship now. :) Talk to her before you make any drastic decisions.Should i break up with my girlfriend?
You must always remember that no relationship is perfect, your always going to have your ups and downs. Your just a little bit in a rough spot right now. Don't worry too much about it, just keep moving forward. Be strong and be there for each other and try to be understanding as much as possible.
If she's as important as you say she is to you then maybe you should sit down with her an talk about this with her an see what you guys might be able to do differently to make things work an see what needs to be done to get over some of these bumps in the road. I don't know how old you an your girlfriend are but if there's something that can be worked on then why not give it a chance an work on it. If when you talk to her an things don't sound like there gonna work then you make the call if you wanna end things but don't end them without talking to her about it. A relationship is a 2 way street not a one way dirt road. Info has to go back an forth for it to work.
You guys sound like you need a long talk. Figure out exactly what's going wrong on both ends, and try to fix them before you end it. Trust me, if you end it before trying to fix it, you will regret it. I've done that. I've also had to have some talks with my boyfriend when it felt like we had hit a wall, and we're in a super happy relationship now. :) Talk to her before you make any drastic decisions.Should i break up with my girlfriend?
You must always remember that no relationship is perfect, your always going to have your ups and downs. Your just a little bit in a rough spot right now. Don't worry too much about it, just keep moving forward. Be strong and be there for each other and try to be understanding as much as possible.
If she's as important as you say she is to you then maybe you should sit down with her an talk about this with her an see what you guys might be able to do differently to make things work an see what needs to be done to get over some of these bumps in the road. I don't know how old you an your girlfriend are but if there's something that can be worked on then why not give it a chance an work on it. If when you talk to her an things don't sound like there gonna work then you make the call if you wanna end things but don't end them without talking to her about it. A relationship is a 2 way street not a one way dirt road. Info has to go back an forth for it to work.
How to break up with a crazy girlfriend?
So I've been dating this girl for 1 year now. At first she was normal, now she's becoming an obsessive individual. 2 months ago while watching a movie together, she said to me, ';you know, if I am dumped by my love like in the movie, I would either kill myself or cause bodily harm to my mate before killing myself';. I didn't know if she was kidding or not...
Now, I am scared.. how do I dump her?How to break up with a crazy girlfriend?
scary sh*t...um just let her down easy and watch every move you make. but tell someone about this so if something happens to you...they know who did it.How to break up with a crazy girlfriend?
You need to ask her exactly what she meant by that comment and tell her that it made you very uncomfortable. Does she have a history of depression? If she does, she needs to be seeing a professional Psychiatrist. If you want to break up with anyone, no matter what the reason is, you just need to be honest and do it. You can't own another person's actions after that, it is her decision how she handles it. It is your decision on how to go about breaking up, but you need to be honest about it. Honesty, although uncomfortable sometimes, is always the best policy.
Ignore her. Get away from her. Change your cell phone number. She's giving you crazy threats. If she makes that comment about Killing herself again, tell her you are now calling 911. They can deal with suicide, you can't. If she asks you to go somewhere or do something answer with this...';no, sorry can't';. Do not elaborate! Get off the phone ASAP. I have had to do this and it worked. Once I even had to move to a town 178 miles away! Whatever works, do it. Don't look back. I'm sure there is someone out there who is loving and caring and healthy.
Just tell her how you honestly feel then stay for a while and see if you see change! If not, then just end it, tell her you don't want this and drop everything. Just ignore her rage, walk away. You have to do what's best for you.
welL if yuh wanna dump her, nd not get kilLed try doing things for her to brake up with yuh.
-gross her out
-dnt pay attention to her
-disrespect her (alil]
tell her she is nuts.
Now, I am scared.. how do I dump her?How to break up with a crazy girlfriend?
scary sh*t...um just let her down easy and watch every move you make. but tell someone about this so if something happens to you...they know who did it.How to break up with a crazy girlfriend?
You need to ask her exactly what she meant by that comment and tell her that it made you very uncomfortable. Does she have a history of depression? If she does, she needs to be seeing a professional Psychiatrist. If you want to break up with anyone, no matter what the reason is, you just need to be honest and do it. You can't own another person's actions after that, it is her decision how she handles it. It is your decision on how to go about breaking up, but you need to be honest about it. Honesty, although uncomfortable sometimes, is always the best policy.
Ignore her. Get away from her. Change your cell phone number. She's giving you crazy threats. If she makes that comment about Killing herself again, tell her you are now calling 911. They can deal with suicide, you can't. If she asks you to go somewhere or do something answer with this...';no, sorry can't';. Do not elaborate! Get off the phone ASAP. I have had to do this and it worked. Once I even had to move to a town 178 miles away! Whatever works, do it. Don't look back. I'm sure there is someone out there who is loving and caring and healthy.
Just tell her how you honestly feel then stay for a while and see if you see change! If not, then just end it, tell her you don't want this and drop everything. Just ignore her rage, walk away. You have to do what's best for you.
welL if yuh wanna dump her, nd not get kilLed try doing things for her to brake up with yuh.
-gross her out
-dnt pay attention to her
-disrespect her (alil]
tell her she is nuts.
Is it wrong to break up with my girlfriend because she had an abortion in the past?
It was two years ago before we met I have just found out ... I loved her before but now I feel nothing when I look at her, I don't think I can be with someone who would do something like that no matter how much I care about themIs it wrong to break up with my girlfriend because she had an abortion in the past?
Be sure you have the full story from her. Figure out how she feels about it now, if she regrets it, she's probably a stronger person for it. If she seems nonchalant or without any guilt, I would move on.Is it wrong to break up with my girlfriend because she had an abortion in the past?
WOW. That is the worst example of punishing someone over something they CANNOT CHANGE from the PAST that I have ever seen. It had nothing to do with you, it was a hard decision that SHE already is haunted by, and believe me, it was NOT an easy or fun thing to do. I have to give her CREDIT for KNOWING she was NOT ready to be a Mom.
No matter how emotional you want to get over something that frankly is none of your business, you need to know that she is a very strong and much more MATURE person than YOU.
umm....why do women get abortion? Oh yes....sometimes they get abortion because a dude injected his sperm into her and when he found out she was preggers he denied it was his and wanted nothing to do with it so this woman did not want to give birth to a baby who'd probably b fatherless which is unfair since it takes 2 to tango....the father was not willing to help her through her pregnancy...now i dont know u circumstance but that could b y she did it. women don't wake up one morning and decide to get an abortion...it is a serious decision they make and they are usually under a dire circumstance. please try not to judge her....i am sure u arent 100% innocent either and have probably done something in the past she doesn't know about.
Abortion is a ';funny'; word that stirs up emotions always. There are 2 groups.
1. It's okay to have one.
2. It's never okay to have one.
If you and her are a 1 and a 2 then this will always bug you, so it's best if you part ways. You don't want it to be 2 years from now and you are still trying to reconcile this in your own mind. (Meaning that you wasted your time with her).
tsk tsk tsk. Doesn't sound like you were really in love to me. But I guess I can put myself in your shoes and understand where your coming from. It goes against your morals, and its best to find someone who's morals match up with yours so you can have a full and healthy relationship. But if you really feel this way, break it off with her and don't pull her heart strings any longer.
P.S. You know 1 in 4 women will have at least one abortion before they turn 44? Just saying. She can't change her past all you can do is look towards the future.
dude i disagree with abortions but you say you loved her before? well did you? cos if you did it was conditional love...on the basis that you love her on the conditions you set her....unconditional love is real,but i think most of us would find it hard maintain...we are humans we judge each other but we also make MISTAKES.
just think if she hadnt had the abortion..would you 2 be together?
talk it through
If you don't love her anymore, then it's time to break up. I suggest you revise your opinion about abortions. Not all kinds of abortion are wrong. It would be nice to talk to your girlfriend about the circumstances that prompted her to have an abortion.
the girl made a mistake and at that time she felt that was her best option. if your that shallow not to forgive and forget then your right you should probably drop her because you dont deserve her.not saying her decision was right, but it was her decision at the time
its really her choice that shouldn't affect your relationship unless you were the one who got her pregnant and would be the father of the baby. if not its her choice shouldn't have anything to do with you
As much as I hate Abortion, it was in her past, BEFORE you.
What are the background details of the abortion etc.
unless I know the details for why she did it I couldn't give proper advice
You're going to break up with her for doing something that was none of your business to begin with? She deserves better than some anti-choice shallow twit like you. Hopefully she will find a real man who will respect her body and her choices.
It depends. Does she regret having an abortion? if yes then it's possible to forgive her but if not then chuck her as quickly as you can.
No it is not wrong... abortion is murder...
well yes. you have to learn to forgive so that u are also forgiven by God or others
move on then
Be sure you have the full story from her. Figure out how she feels about it now, if she regrets it, she's probably a stronger person for it. If she seems nonchalant or without any guilt, I would move on.Is it wrong to break up with my girlfriend because she had an abortion in the past?
WOW. That is the worst example of punishing someone over something they CANNOT CHANGE from the PAST that I have ever seen. It had nothing to do with you, it was a hard decision that SHE already is haunted by, and believe me, it was NOT an easy or fun thing to do. I have to give her CREDIT for KNOWING she was NOT ready to be a Mom.
No matter how emotional you want to get over something that frankly is none of your business, you need to know that she is a very strong and much more MATURE person than YOU.
umm....why do women get abortion? Oh yes....sometimes they get abortion because a dude injected his sperm into her and when he found out she was preggers he denied it was his and wanted nothing to do with it so this woman did not want to give birth to a baby who'd probably b fatherless which is unfair since it takes 2 to tango....the father was not willing to help her through her pregnancy...now i dont know u circumstance but that could b y she did it. women don't wake up one morning and decide to get an abortion...it is a serious decision they make and they are usually under a dire circumstance. please try not to judge her....i am sure u arent 100% innocent either and have probably done something in the past she doesn't know about.
Abortion is a ';funny'; word that stirs up emotions always. There are 2 groups.
1. It's okay to have one.
2. It's never okay to have one.
If you and her are a 1 and a 2 then this will always bug you, so it's best if you part ways. You don't want it to be 2 years from now and you are still trying to reconcile this in your own mind. (Meaning that you wasted your time with her).
tsk tsk tsk. Doesn't sound like you were really in love to me. But I guess I can put myself in your shoes and understand where your coming from. It goes against your morals, and its best to find someone who's morals match up with yours so you can have a full and healthy relationship. But if you really feel this way, break it off with her and don't pull her heart strings any longer.
P.S. You know 1 in 4 women will have at least one abortion before they turn 44? Just saying. She can't change her past all you can do is look towards the future.
dude i disagree with abortions but you say you loved her before? well did you? cos if you did it was conditional love...on the basis that you love her on the conditions you set her....unconditional love is real,but i think most of us would find it hard maintain...we are humans we judge each other but we also make MISTAKES.
just think if she hadnt had the abortion..would you 2 be together?
talk it through
If you don't love her anymore, then it's time to break up. I suggest you revise your opinion about abortions. Not all kinds of abortion are wrong. It would be nice to talk to your girlfriend about the circumstances that prompted her to have an abortion.
the girl made a mistake and at that time she felt that was her best option. if your that shallow not to forgive and forget then your right you should probably drop her because you dont deserve her.not saying her decision was right, but it was her decision at the time
its really her choice that shouldn't affect your relationship unless you were the one who got her pregnant and would be the father of the baby. if not its her choice shouldn't have anything to do with you
As much as I hate Abortion, it was in her past, BEFORE you.
What are the background details of the abortion etc.
unless I know the details for why she did it I couldn't give proper advice
You're going to break up with her for doing something that was none of your business to begin with? She deserves better than some anti-choice shallow twit like you. Hopefully she will find a real man who will respect her body and her choices.
It depends. Does she regret having an abortion? if yes then it's possible to forgive her but if not then chuck her as quickly as you can.
No it is not wrong... abortion is murder...
well yes. you have to learn to forgive so that u are also forgiven by God or others
move on then
When him and his girlfriend break up, should I go for him even though he's been an *** hole?
Around December me and this guy started talking..He was so sweet, he would drive every day to come see me and do nothing but chill, we had such a great connection.But I turned him down (which i regret) because I was just so nervous to be committed to him. He then started dating his ex.(i think to get over me). After he started dating her, I told him how I was crazy for him and regret turning him down. He was so surprised and told me that he wished he could be with me and he really liked me, but he had no reason to break up with his girl so he couldnt. A few weeks went by, and I found out that his girl CHEATED on him, but he took her back! this tells me that he really likes her. And lately, he's been being mean to me, trying to make me look dumb, i feel like because he knows I like him and he knows he can easily have me, he's just trying to shove it in my face. But what makes me wonder is, whenever me and him are alone I know he likes me,the connection is obvious, he flirts with me the WHOLE time. He has told me that he KNOWS him and his girlfriend are going to break up during the summer because she is moving away for college. (we're all seniors) So, the question is, IF he tries to get back with me over the summer, should I do it? even though he has been such an *** hole to me and chose HER over me.? idk what to do, please help me.When him and his girlfriend break up, should I go for him even though he's been an *** hole?
sweetie let it go. if he had an excuse to leave her and didn even take it then hes not gonna come to u. and even if he does than he still wnt stop talking to her witch will cause major problems. and its totally not worth ur time. try finding someone who is not an *** whole. trust me i dealt with an *** hole for 6 years. and trust me when i say this once an *** whole always an *** whole. move on
sweetie let it go. if he had an excuse to leave her and didn even take it then hes not gonna come to u. and even if he does than he still wnt stop talking to her witch will cause major problems. and its totally not worth ur time. try finding someone who is not an *** whole. trust me i dealt with an *** hole for 6 years. and trust me when i say this once an *** whole always an *** whole. move on
Break up with girlfriend?
ok so im 15 and i have been with my girlfriend for 2 years and she is my first girlfriend. i recently have noticed that we dont talk as much and were kind of drifting apart. i kind of want to let her down. the only problem is that i have never broken up with a girl before and i really stat to feel bad if someone is upset with something that i did. please give me some advice on how to let her down easy...
Break up with girlfriend?
well.. i would just be nice to her.. and say that you really don't want somebody right now.. but you do still care about her.. and if you ever need a friend to talk to that you are always there.. and don't go up to her in school or whereever.. and don't try to make up excuses like your grandma died.. just be stern.. and everything should be all good.. let me know how everything works out dixiedoll_450@live.com is my IM or you can just email me.. Break up with girlfriend?
ok assuming that you are her first love...it will not be easy any way you try...lotsa girls dont take it easy after only 2 months of dating,much less two years.
Maybe you can try to get her to ket YOU down easy,so u will be prepared and it will be easier on her. Maybe start distancing your self a little.
Dont give her the ';its not u,it's me '; speech...thats sucks.
It nice that u are concerned 4 her feelings.
Hmmm,I really cant think of anything good .sorry ;(
b4 you break up with her tell her that you feel like you are drifting apart. then go from ther>windows update triumph
Break up with girlfriend?
well.. i would just be nice to her.. and say that you really don't want somebody right now.. but you do still care about her.. and if you ever need a friend to talk to that you are always there.. and don't go up to her in school or whereever.. and don't try to make up excuses like your grandma died.. just be stern.. and everything should be all good.. let me know how everything works out dixiedoll_450@live.com is my IM or you can just email me.. Break up with girlfriend?
ok assuming that you are her first love...it will not be easy any way you try...lotsa girls dont take it easy after only 2 months of dating,much less two years.
Maybe you can try to get her to ket YOU down easy,so u will be prepared and it will be easier on her. Maybe start distancing your self a little.
Dont give her the ';its not u,it's me '; speech...thats sucks.
It nice that u are concerned 4 her feelings.
Hmmm,I really cant think of anything good .sorry ;(
b4 you break up with her tell her that you feel like you are drifting apart. then go from ther
How do I make my son break up with his girlfriend she's biracial and he's white?
my son is 18 and he's datng a 16 year old biracial girl who has got no father and is just living with her mother I can't accept ths my son deserves a white girl from a good normal family,,,but he won't listen to me and she's quite rude too. how do I break them up?How do I make my son break up with his girlfriend she's biracial and he's white?
You don't. How dare you judge people. All white people are not good and normal. Your son likes what he likes and you just have to deal with it. If you try to break them up then it will make him more determined to get the blackest girl he can find. What you hate more will end up in your family. I can't believe you even posted this question you racist peice of $#!+How do I make my son break up with his girlfriend she's biracial and he's white?
First of all....just because she is biracial does not make her not worthy enough to date your son. That's quite judgment of you to make this comment of her and you should actually follow your son because he seems open-minded and non judgmental of others' races. You need to accept that present day is full of mixed couples and your son is one. I think that you should take a deep look at yourself for a while because your question is totally unacceptably, close-minded and that's probably why she is rude to you. By the way, you are not thinking about your son. He is obviously happy with her and the more you keeping making these comments to him is only going to make him want to be around her more. You should just sit down with him and ask him what made him want to date her.
Just because she is biracial and has no father doesn't make her a bad person. Your son deserves whom ever he wants not who you want him to be with. I think you need to accept his decisions or when he moves out is gonna not tell you as much info about his life as possible.Instead of trying to break up him and his girlfriend you need to realize that you are breaking up your relationship with him. And if your being rude to her maybe thats why she is being rude to you.
I'm sorry, Ma'am, but there is no such thing as a white girl from a normal family now. I'm Irish, and my cousins are Hispanic and Black and Native American. There is just no such thing. Everyone's parents are getting divorced, people are allergic to dogs, and Obama is running for president.
Anyway, forcing the issue won't do anything with your adult son. Rude is the way of life, nowadays. You need to know how to be rude to get anywhere, but also how to be sweet. She can be both, but I think you made it obvious that you don't like her.
It's not your place or your choice to decide whom your son dates.
The fact that the girl is biracial is not her choice. The fact that she does not have a father in her life is not her choice. The fat that she has a mother who obviously cares for her that she lives with is wonderful.
I admire your son for not listening to his rude and prejudiced mother.
the biracial part shouldnt have anything to do with it. so what if she is another race. if he likes her, so be it. and just because she is from a broken family doesnt mean she cant live a ';normal'; life. there are plenty of familys who look to be this ';normal'; that you have in mind and be nothing more then a messed up child or adult in the future.. let your son be happy, and if its a mistake, let him learn from it. quit being a racist mother, and get in reality with the world. this ';normal'; your speaking of is nothing but the past. its a whole new ball game out there...
First, the more you try to tell your son not to do something, the more he will want to do it.
I have been dating my bf for fouryears. My parents didn't like him at first but i kept dating him and now we all get along. It will work out.
Maybe his gf is rude because she knows you look down on her, and want your son to break up with her.
Try having an open mind and be accepting. Just because she is biracial doesnt mean she isnt good for him. Racism is not a good thing to practice.
i understand your concerns, and sadly when you ask a question suggesting anything racial these days youre gonna get bashed(literally), but out of motherly love, you asked anyway, thats good.
you stated biracial, i dont think youre rude as many have accused you, since you arent name calling or anything.
but what you do need to realise is that its his life, not yours, whether you accept it or not, and whatever girl he choose, say in some future, when he takes a wife, its their life, you wontt really quite be there in the picture, except youve been nice and they enjoy visiting you often.
may i suggest that you instead of trying to manipulate things to your own likings, pray the best for your son and whatever it is, resign to god's will.
of course, a mother can guide her son to the best possible that there is for him, but what if the best for your son isnt the same thing as the best for you?
Pray for his happiness and pray for his goods, pray that he doesnt get used/manipulated by anyone, etc...
when things are wrong, say so as a 'fact', ex, it would be nice/sweeter if...blahblahblah..., more effective than condamning, and you know, not everyone is lucky enough to have both parents these days, and its quite cruel to sneer at someone because (s)he lost a leg or has only one parent, wouldnt you think?
wow your not only rude but i believe someone has too much pride. try asking a question for yourself inside of trying to break your son up with his gf. if he doesnt want to break up with her leave them alone. its not the girls fault that she doesnt have a father. Deal with it as someone else said its 2008 nearly 2009 get over it. dont make him break up with her otherwise he will just rebel against you anyway and disregaurd your wishes.
DEAL. WITH. IT.
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STOP HAVING SO MUCH PRIDE.
let him date who he wants
and from personal experience, white girls are NOT always the best, sometimes they are the worst
get over the fact that shes a different race and not from a good family. its what she is herself, not where she came from
racist b!+ch
You racist b*tch. I'm biracial.. you're saying were not good enough for you? You need to quit being so prejudice and if they love each other they're gonna stay together. Get over it. I can't wait til Obama wins so that'll piss you off more that a biracial president is in office.
that's pretty racist, so what his girl's biracial? and grew up with no father? and would it be better if the white girl with a ';normal family'; is a total ho? even that would be better than the girl he's with now?
The harder you push the more he will want her. Good for him for knowing that color does not matter. Best of luck to him and his woman may they have many happy years together. And to __// with you.
You don't do anything. This is his decision to make. If you try to push in between them, you'll just alienate your son.
By the way, who cares if she's biracial?
That's not a good reason to want to break them up! Grow up and stop being a racist. Oh, and by the way, he's 18 now (an adult) and can date who ever he wants to date.
If you're not a troll, you're a disgusting racist. If I were your son I'd tell you where to shove it while telling you to join 2008 instead of being stuck in 1958.
if he is happy. Then whats the problem?
Answer mine:
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deserves a white girl? what the ef does ethnicity have to do with a relationship... someones racist.
Trying to force it will only cause the exact opposite to happen.
Who your son dates is HIS business. Not yours.
If you try to break then up you will push them together. stay out of it you are not the one having the relationship cut the ties mom
umm
Your horrible!
wow talk about racist.
a girl from a white family doesn't mean that they are good and ';normal';
I hope that your son is smarter and has more compasion than you
What the... if he's happy you should accept it. You sound a little rude also :l
Wow you are a horrible person! Let them be happy. Stop being racist and stay out if his life before he hates you forever!
I'm glad people like you exist so racism will exist long past my death.
Thanks for holding the fort up for the rest of us.
(This post was littered with sarcasm people!) sheesh
Get over your racism! You need to join the real world!
YOUR JUST RACIS..
WHOZ CARES IF HIS WHITE N SHE BIRACIAL..
I didn't know that racists like you still existed.
Wow, get over your racism. It's 2008 girl.
ok u know wat u racist people can back off of your son. he can chose who he wants to date!!!!!!
Nice trolling job. Next time try not to make it so obvious though.
you two should get along....you're quite rude too.
You don't. How dare you judge people. All white people are not good and normal. Your son likes what he likes and you just have to deal with it. If you try to break them up then it will make him more determined to get the blackest girl he can find. What you hate more will end up in your family. I can't believe you even posted this question you racist peice of $#!+How do I make my son break up with his girlfriend she's biracial and he's white?
First of all....just because she is biracial does not make her not worthy enough to date your son. That's quite judgment of you to make this comment of her and you should actually follow your son because he seems open-minded and non judgmental of others' races. You need to accept that present day is full of mixed couples and your son is one. I think that you should take a deep look at yourself for a while because your question is totally unacceptably, close-minded and that's probably why she is rude to you. By the way, you are not thinking about your son. He is obviously happy with her and the more you keeping making these comments to him is only going to make him want to be around her more. You should just sit down with him and ask him what made him want to date her.
Just because she is biracial and has no father doesn't make her a bad person. Your son deserves whom ever he wants not who you want him to be with. I think you need to accept his decisions or when he moves out is gonna not tell you as much info about his life as possible.Instead of trying to break up him and his girlfriend you need to realize that you are breaking up your relationship with him. And if your being rude to her maybe thats why she is being rude to you.
I'm sorry, Ma'am, but there is no such thing as a white girl from a normal family now. I'm Irish, and my cousins are Hispanic and Black and Native American. There is just no such thing. Everyone's parents are getting divorced, people are allergic to dogs, and Obama is running for president.
Anyway, forcing the issue won't do anything with your adult son. Rude is the way of life, nowadays. You need to know how to be rude to get anywhere, but also how to be sweet. She can be both, but I think you made it obvious that you don't like her.
It's not your place or your choice to decide whom your son dates.
The fact that the girl is biracial is not her choice. The fact that she does not have a father in her life is not her choice. The fat that she has a mother who obviously cares for her that she lives with is wonderful.
I admire your son for not listening to his rude and prejudiced mother.
the biracial part shouldnt have anything to do with it. so what if she is another race. if he likes her, so be it. and just because she is from a broken family doesnt mean she cant live a ';normal'; life. there are plenty of familys who look to be this ';normal'; that you have in mind and be nothing more then a messed up child or adult in the future.. let your son be happy, and if its a mistake, let him learn from it. quit being a racist mother, and get in reality with the world. this ';normal'; your speaking of is nothing but the past. its a whole new ball game out there...
First, the more you try to tell your son not to do something, the more he will want to do it.
I have been dating my bf for fouryears. My parents didn't like him at first but i kept dating him and now we all get along. It will work out.
Maybe his gf is rude because she knows you look down on her, and want your son to break up with her.
Try having an open mind and be accepting. Just because she is biracial doesnt mean she isnt good for him. Racism is not a good thing to practice.
i understand your concerns, and sadly when you ask a question suggesting anything racial these days youre gonna get bashed(literally), but out of motherly love, you asked anyway, thats good.
you stated biracial, i dont think youre rude as many have accused you, since you arent name calling or anything.
but what you do need to realise is that its his life, not yours, whether you accept it or not, and whatever girl he choose, say in some future, when he takes a wife, its their life, you wontt really quite be there in the picture, except youve been nice and they enjoy visiting you often.
may i suggest that you instead of trying to manipulate things to your own likings, pray the best for your son and whatever it is, resign to god's will.
of course, a mother can guide her son to the best possible that there is for him, but what if the best for your son isnt the same thing as the best for you?
Pray for his happiness and pray for his goods, pray that he doesnt get used/manipulated by anyone, etc...
when things are wrong, say so as a 'fact', ex, it would be nice/sweeter if...blahblahblah..., more effective than condamning, and you know, not everyone is lucky enough to have both parents these days, and its quite cruel to sneer at someone because (s)he lost a leg or has only one parent, wouldnt you think?
wow your not only rude but i believe someone has too much pride. try asking a question for yourself inside of trying to break your son up with his gf. if he doesnt want to break up with her leave them alone. its not the girls fault that she doesnt have a father. Deal with it as someone else said its 2008 nearly 2009 get over it. dont make him break up with her otherwise he will just rebel against you anyway and disregaurd your wishes.
DEAL. WITH. IT.
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STOP HAVING SO MUCH PRIDE.
let him date who he wants
and from personal experience, white girls are NOT always the best, sometimes they are the worst
get over the fact that shes a different race and not from a good family. its what she is herself, not where she came from
racist b!+ch
You racist b*tch. I'm biracial.. you're saying were not good enough for you? You need to quit being so prejudice and if they love each other they're gonna stay together. Get over it. I can't wait til Obama wins so that'll piss you off more that a biracial president is in office.
that's pretty racist, so what his girl's biracial? and grew up with no father? and would it be better if the white girl with a ';normal family'; is a total ho? even that would be better than the girl he's with now?
The harder you push the more he will want her. Good for him for knowing that color does not matter. Best of luck to him and his woman may they have many happy years together. And to __// with you.
You don't do anything. This is his decision to make. If you try to push in between them, you'll just alienate your son.
By the way, who cares if she's biracial?
That's not a good reason to want to break them up! Grow up and stop being a racist. Oh, and by the way, he's 18 now (an adult) and can date who ever he wants to date.
If you're not a troll, you're a disgusting racist. If I were your son I'd tell you where to shove it while telling you to join 2008 instead of being stuck in 1958.
if he is happy. Then whats the problem?
Answer mine:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
deserves a white girl? what the ef does ethnicity have to do with a relationship... someones racist.
Trying to force it will only cause the exact opposite to happen.
Who your son dates is HIS business. Not yours.
If you try to break then up you will push them together. stay out of it you are not the one having the relationship cut the ties mom
umm
Your horrible!
wow talk about racist.
a girl from a white family doesn't mean that they are good and ';normal';
I hope that your son is smarter and has more compasion than you
What the... if he's happy you should accept it. You sound a little rude also :l
Wow you are a horrible person! Let them be happy. Stop being racist and stay out if his life before he hates you forever!
I'm glad people like you exist so racism will exist long past my death.
Thanks for holding the fort up for the rest of us.
(This post was littered with sarcasm people!) sheesh
Get over your racism! You need to join the real world!
YOUR JUST RACIS..
WHOZ CARES IF HIS WHITE N SHE BIRACIAL..
I didn't know that racists like you still existed.
Wow, get over your racism. It's 2008 girl.
ok u know wat u racist people can back off of your son. he can chose who he wants to date!!!!!!
Nice trolling job. Next time try not to make it so obvious though.
you two should get along....you're quite rude too.
How to break up with girlfriend after 10 years?
Alright, I never really asked for any advice over the internet, but I guess I am pretty desperate to find other opinions from other people. I have been with my girlfriend since middle school, her parents love me and my parents love her. We did everything together, made love all the time. When her job start getting busy for the National Guard, she been making excuses that she doesnt have time to spend with me. SHe works at 7 am until 5 PM. We havent had sex in three months because she is tired. I can understand that kind of. I recently signed up for the army as well. My sergeant put me in the same Base as hers, and I am higher rankj then her already due to the fact I graduated college. After I enlisted, she seems to be on a emotional rollercoaster. I dont expect her in cheating. But I asked her what is wrong. She says everything. Is it because I am leaving? If she is mad because of that, why does it feel she is ignoring me. I ask her I want to have sex, but she says is that all I think about. I am sorry fellas, but 3 months for me is a long time. If she is mad that I am leaving, wouldnt she try to spend time with me everything she can? I am not sure what to do, how can I break up with her, if I do how can I tell her parents and mines... Thanks for hearing me out.How to break up with girlfriend after 10 years?
wow you suck.How to break up with girlfriend after 10 years?
Maybe shes upset because she has worked harder and the second you enliseted you were already promoted to a higher rank then her. Talk to her about that, maybe she just feels that her hard work is going unoticed. Stop thinking about sex al the time i know it might suck but you have to think about saving your relationship as a first priority and not when your going to get laid.
You need to really think about this. Is this what you really want??. We all know what you really want but don't make that the REAL reason why you are breaking up with her. She obviously needs you and you thinking about yourself. That is wrong be there for her and don't be selfish.
Tell them the truth why lie?.
why would you break with your girlfriend after 10 years? cant you just wait for her? when a person loves another, they would wait and be patient. why cant you just be patient? she is right all you want is sex. you sound like a jerk.
After 10 years, breaking up would be the last resort. I think you should try couselling ...there is stuff goining on here...break up is very serious...try writing her a letter explaining your feelings...
3 months is a long time, if she is upset with you that you are leaving then she should speak to you, you are right.
The most easy way to do this I think is to sit down with her and tell her everything you are feeling, tell her that over the past few months you have grown apart, you don't feel as close to her anymore then you once did, that you both should take some time and spend it doing other things, that you should use this time you are away to focus and maybe see other people.
People need some breaks, some time away from eachother, your parents and hers will just have to deal with it and understand you are both young and working hard, that you need some time to yourself to think about things and work things out.
Good luck to you
You're going to break up with her becuase of THAT?!?!?
Dude, you totally need to TALK TO HER ABOUT IT. She's going through a rough patch; stop thinking about yourself and YOUR needs and be there for her.
You're acting like 3 months is such a crime. Jesus, men *scoffs and shakes head*
I'm sorry that I'm being a little harsh, but really, judging from that question, you seem really selfish. Is a relationship that's lasted 10 years worth breaking over this?
You're asking us why she's not spending time with you. DUDE, how are we supposed to know? TALK TO HER ABOUT IT.
It sounds like your problems with your girlfriend started before you enlisted in the Army. Not having sex in a relationship that was previously sexual is a sign that things are going sour. The Army thing may just be adding to the hardship.
TALK to your girlfriend. You can;t be in a serious, adult relationship if you don't communicate. You can't be in any type of relationship without communication. You need to find out from HER what's wrong.
If you are sure you want to break up, then just do it. Tell her everything you told us, that you're not getting what you need, you feel like things are different, etc. and tell her that you need to spend some time apart.
Military messes everything up huh?
I figured that out before i joined....i'm staying single until my contract is over. 4 more yrs to go! oh yeah!
wow you suck.How to break up with girlfriend after 10 years?
Maybe shes upset because she has worked harder and the second you enliseted you were already promoted to a higher rank then her. Talk to her about that, maybe she just feels that her hard work is going unoticed. Stop thinking about sex al the time i know it might suck but you have to think about saving your relationship as a first priority and not when your going to get laid.
You need to really think about this. Is this what you really want??. We all know what you really want but don't make that the REAL reason why you are breaking up with her. She obviously needs you and you thinking about yourself. That is wrong be there for her and don't be selfish.
Tell them the truth why lie?.
why would you break with your girlfriend after 10 years? cant you just wait for her? when a person loves another, they would wait and be patient. why cant you just be patient? she is right all you want is sex. you sound like a jerk.
After 10 years, breaking up would be the last resort. I think you should try couselling ...there is stuff goining on here...break up is very serious...try writing her a letter explaining your feelings...
3 months is a long time, if she is upset with you that you are leaving then she should speak to you, you are right.
The most easy way to do this I think is to sit down with her and tell her everything you are feeling, tell her that over the past few months you have grown apart, you don't feel as close to her anymore then you once did, that you both should take some time and spend it doing other things, that you should use this time you are away to focus and maybe see other people.
People need some breaks, some time away from eachother, your parents and hers will just have to deal with it and understand you are both young and working hard, that you need some time to yourself to think about things and work things out.
Good luck to you
You're going to break up with her becuase of THAT?!?!?
Dude, you totally need to TALK TO HER ABOUT IT. She's going through a rough patch; stop thinking about yourself and YOUR needs and be there for her.
You're acting like 3 months is such a crime. Jesus, men *scoffs and shakes head*
I'm sorry that I'm being a little harsh, but really, judging from that question, you seem really selfish. Is a relationship that's lasted 10 years worth breaking over this?
You're asking us why she's not spending time with you. DUDE, how are we supposed to know? TALK TO HER ABOUT IT.
It sounds like your problems with your girlfriend started before you enlisted in the Army. Not having sex in a relationship that was previously sexual is a sign that things are going sour. The Army thing may just be adding to the hardship.
TALK to your girlfriend. You can;t be in a serious, adult relationship if you don't communicate. You can't be in any type of relationship without communication. You need to find out from HER what's wrong.
If you are sure you want to break up, then just do it. Tell her everything you told us, that you're not getting what you need, you feel like things are different, etc. and tell her that you need to spend some time apart.
Military messes everything up huh?
I figured that out before i joined....i'm staying single until my contract is over. 4 more yrs to go! oh yeah!
How to get over a break up with your girlfriend.?
Just curious?How to get over a break up with your girlfriend.?
well it is painful and takes it's own time, .my sympathies for you...lollzzzzHow to get over a break up with your girlfriend.?
The best thing to do is to tell yourself that there are other women out there and It is not the end of the world. Also, she may not have been the right one for you, because if she was, you would still be together.
The right one will come along for you one day. There is someone special out there for each of us. Take a break and start seing other people.
It takes Time depending on how you felt about her and how long you were together or even if she was your first. May take more time depending on what happens afterwards such as do you decide to remain friends or cut off all contact. Try and go out with friends more and maybe have a drink with them start speaking to people about what has happened don't bottle it up to yourself.
Distract yourself with something else. Maybe something you didnt have time for when you had a girlfriend. meet new peeople...or work out
Go on a holiday to Hawaii
why?to cherish for everthing u hv.. some time some thing can't be make trial of that....GOOD LUCK!: )
Lads night out!
jump to another one
COORS LIGHT!!! haha
just say it or just be a goof until she dumps u
well it is painful and takes it's own time, .my sympathies for you...lollzzzzHow to get over a break up with your girlfriend.?
The best thing to do is to tell yourself that there are other women out there and It is not the end of the world. Also, she may not have been the right one for you, because if she was, you would still be together.
The right one will come along for you one day. There is someone special out there for each of us. Take a break and start seing other people.
It takes Time depending on how you felt about her and how long you were together or even if she was your first. May take more time depending on what happens afterwards such as do you decide to remain friends or cut off all contact. Try and go out with friends more and maybe have a drink with them start speaking to people about what has happened don't bottle it up to yourself.
Distract yourself with something else. Maybe something you didnt have time for when you had a girlfriend. meet new peeople...or work out
Go on a holiday to Hawaii
why?to cherish for everthing u hv.. some time some thing can't be make trial of that....GOOD LUCK!: )
Lads night out!
jump to another one
COORS LIGHT!!! haha
just say it or just be a goof until she dumps u
How do you get a new girlfriend after a break up?
I split with my ex around August and it's been awhile. I'm looking to get into a new relationship but I just haven't found anybody here on campus yet.
Worst of all I ran into my ex yesterday with her new bf and it was super awkward.
I would love to have that excitment, spark, love, and feeling of being wanted again. I know it doesn't just come if you look for it but any tips would be nice. Thanks!How do you get a new girlfriend after a break up?
love = drug my friend...slow down alittle look around find a longer relationship this time.How do you get a new girlfriend after a break up?
Pubs! You have a few drinks (just enough to feel relaxed not so much that you slur and stumble) you talk you mingle and you will absolutely get some numbers! Clubs are to noisy. I find campus chicks a bit stuck up . . . till they hit the campus bar LOL.
Don't you hate when your ex hooks up with someone so effortlessly and parades em around!
Just take your time. Three months isn't exactly very long. You don't wanna rush just for the sake of being with someone and before you know it, you've broken up again and posting this question on Yahoo Answers again.
Just keep looking, you will find the right one.
Just enjoy being single for now and she will come and find you :)
Worst of all I ran into my ex yesterday with her new bf and it was super awkward.
I would love to have that excitment, spark, love, and feeling of being wanted again. I know it doesn't just come if you look for it but any tips would be nice. Thanks!How do you get a new girlfriend after a break up?
love = drug my friend...slow down alittle look around find a longer relationship this time.How do you get a new girlfriend after a break up?
Pubs! You have a few drinks (just enough to feel relaxed not so much that you slur and stumble) you talk you mingle and you will absolutely get some numbers! Clubs are to noisy. I find campus chicks a bit stuck up . . . till they hit the campus bar LOL.
Don't you hate when your ex hooks up with someone so effortlessly and parades em around!
Just take your time. Three months isn't exactly very long. You don't wanna rush just for the sake of being with someone and before you know it, you've broken up again and posting this question on Yahoo Answers again.
Just keep looking, you will find the right one.
Just enjoy being single for now and she will come and find you :)
Girlfriend cheated on me and wants to break up?
as of today, me and my girlfriend broke up. we dated for just under a year and everything was great. no major problems and lots of good memories were had. we frequently told each other ';i love you'; and were constantly texting while we werent around each other. things we were so tight that she talked me into getting an apartment together with her and she always brought up how great our life would be together forever. we even had a ring picked out and everything. she pushed these sentiments on me all the time, and i was happy to hear them. well, last week we went out to the bars and both got quite drunk. i felt something was a little awry so i checked her text messages and found messages to a coworker of hers, things like ';i can't wait to be in your bed'; and ';its ok, i sent the message when he went outside'; etc. it was hard to see and i confronted her on it. i woke her up and made her tell me. two days prior she had slept with him. she lied to me about staying the night at her parents and was with him. the very next day while we were together at home, she decided to go to her friends house for 2 hours. turns out she was with him and didnt find out until later. the worst part was while i was trying to get information out of her and asking her why she did this, she decided she wanted to go to his house! (she was still drunk and wanted to be comforted and sober up to talk according to her). so she leaves to his place, only to come back the next day not really knowing what to say. we tried to patch things up a bit, but then she pulled a 180 on me and wanted to take a break to make decisions and think.
so, within the next 5 days, she texts me here and there, calls a couple times to see how things are. i try not to answer, but did once. i didnt work at all for these days and it was so tough. i went out at night with my friends and coworkers and others who gave me support a few days in a row and it helped a bit.
i told a handful of people about her cheating and since we have mutual friends the word got out very fast. she did not like this at all and was upset with me. she became very defensive and even put her facebook headline for a day as ';doesn't like getting thrown under the bus';. i mean wtf. can she disrespect me anymore? so, today i moved a few things out of our place and we decided to talk. i was extremely nervous because i didnt know if she wanted me back or even what i should do. a big part of me wants her back. what we had was so great, and it literally changed overnight. i read in a text to one of her girlfriends that she has talked about wanting to be single and loving me very much at the same time, and not know what to do.
so we had the talk a few hours ago. i went in not knowing what to do and neither did she according to her. but within 10 minutes said we shouldnt be together. so after talking about it, i got almost no answers. she said she didnt know why she cheated....had no clue. i found out she is still friends with the guy, but doesnt like him like that. she liked his carefree college lifestyle. he is 22, a student, a bouncer at one of the bars she works at and she is 24, has 3 jobs and lots of stresses. on top of that, he is not an attractive person. why would she trade down? what i think happened, and she agreed to some certainty is that she got scared about our future. marriage plans, rings, house....we just got a dog together as well. she pushed me hard for all that stuff, that is why i dont get it.
so, we agreed to mutually break up, and i tried to be as strong as i could when talking to her. no crying, shaking, begging. just listening and stonefaced. alot of pain, mixed in with a bit of lightheartedness to break the tension. to top things off, she said im an amazing guy and boyfriend, and would make a great father and husband.....but she doesn't know if she wants that now. she doesn't know what she wants all of a sudden, and i get cheated out of everything! she says she still loves and cares for me, and she knows i feel the same. she admits she made a huge mistake and screwed up things to the point where she didn't think they were fixable. she wants to keep in touch and tried to be hopeful in saying, ';what we had was amazing, and if we are meant to be together, i believe we will be, whether thats 6 months, a year or two';. with that, she got up, sat down next to me and buried her face in my neck and gave me the biggest 5 minute hug ive ever had, crying the whole time. after that, i got up and said cya around and left. im still shocked and it hasnt hit me yet. i feel like i have nothing now and everything i have been wishing for us has been taken away just like that. why do girls in good relationships screw them up for no reason!? im so hurt, confused, stretched thin and sad that i dont know what to do.
Girlfriend cheated on me and wants to break up?
First, take a deep breath and relax.
It sounds like you've been hurt so much to write all of this out.
But there's no way to go but to move on. It may be hard to admit.
I guess the only thing that's holding you back is the fact that you don't understand how this all happened so quickly, or how she can't explain herself.
Go out with your buddies, try to think about it with reason, not with emotion. Just pick a time to sit down and figure out what's bothering you sooo much about this. And figure out how to make it not bother you. It takes time.
Girlfriend cheated on me and wants to break up?
If she really loves you as much as she says, then she'll come back to you.
woah way to long, and if she cheated on you why even bother to go back to her?
I would ditch her because she sounds like a wh0re.
Why would she get mad at you when she cheated on you? She is just mad because everyone knows what a cheater she is. That's pretty sad and I feel sorry for you, I hope you kicked her out of your apartment, and don't talk to her anymore or she'll screw you even worse.
this might sound hard to do, but move on and forget about her. If she's doing all these things behind your back, then she's obviously not worth the time and effort
Don't do anything. You're better off without her, whether you realize that now or not.
My boyfriend hates drinking and now I see why he doesn't like or want me drinking. Our relationship is pretty close to yours actually. He is a great guy, one day he would make a wonderful father and I honestly one day really hope he is my children's father, I love him so much. We'vee been dating for as long as your relationship about too.
We talk about everything, kids and all. I have to admit. Sometimes the thoughts are too much pressure. I am in college and things are hard for me with the expense of school, plus working some crappy job just to makes ends meet. It does leave me bitter sometimes and over worked most definitely. No excuse to cheat though. That's crossing the line. sorry.
And don't listen to all these people answering. Some are right. Remember most people on here are teens or adolescents which doesn't help when you need sound advice from someone who has a better idea of this situation in your life .... right now.
Reading your question ..... yes all of it. There were two things that really stood out to me.
You know what really stood out to me in your question?
The drinking and the 3 jobs she worked.
On top of the fact she worked 3 jobs, maybe the stress was getting to her head and it made her do something dumb like cheat. She didn't like the guy after all.
If you think about it ..... the times she did cheat on you she was drunk.
You should talk with her some more but just give her some time first. (Like a week or two) She should come back, she will realize what she has just lost and it will be hard for you too but hang in there, the best is yet to come.
You should take her back once more but not be so serious this time, just have fun, there's no rush, y'all are still young. Show her things don't have to be so serious and she can have fun so she doesn't feel rushed.
I'd say .... give her one more chance. By the sounds of your question I am certain there is still a lot of love in your relationship. Just give her more space. BUT if she cheats again, I think you will be doing yourself a big favor by letting her go unfortunantly.
I think the jobs and the pressure of being a wife, mother, house keeper someday was getting to her. Maybe she felt a little trapped. No excuse to cheat but this girl must work hard and it sounds like she had too much pressure with the idea of marriage on top of everything.
You might think about working some more so the stress isn't on her like that. Just talk it out and try to balance things a little more with the home life.
Move on with your life. If she slept with another dude then she doesn't respect or love you.
She cheated on you so there will be a second time.
There's a saying ';fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.
I cheated on my husband. We were married for 10 years. Honestly, sometimes I wonder why I did what I did, because my husband was a good husband. But, the excitment and thrill got carried away which lead to the affair. It was exciting. Fresh. New. Women especially thrive on excitment and keeping everything new. I think these days men settle more into the long term commitment family life styles and women are bored of it. NOT ALL WOMEN. I'm just saying some. The experience of the new man was a thril but the experience of the affair keeping it secret was also a thril. I've noticed a lot also women tend to chase the men who treat them less like a lady then the men who show them 100 percent respect. Something else the bar scene isn't good for a committed relationship. If I was you I would just get over her. Time heals all wounds. Because I believe she'd do it again. I know I would.
STAY AWAY FROM HER.
Clearly she doesn't know what she wants. I'm so sorry you got hurt! That's terrible, but you need to know youre worth more than that, and move on with your life. She cheated, and it was NOT like a one time slip up situation, she was having another RELATIONSHIP!!! That's awful, and heartbreaking, and I know you probably want more than anything to just forget about it and go right back to how things were, but you can't, and she doesn't deserve that forgiveness from you. Focus on you, let her focus on her. Stay apart for AT LEAST a year! If you get together, fine- but don't move in with her again, feel things out- You can stay in touch, but VERY loosely! Don't be a doormat, never let anyone treat you that way, that's terrible and I'm SO sorry to hear that this happened to you. It's my VERY worst nightmare!!! My heart goes out to you, and I hope you find some peace and happiness very soon, as well as some love from soneone who will be faithful and loyal!
u need to get rid of her.she does't deserve u there's an old saying once a cheater always a cheater. one day she's gonna look back at what u two had a wish she had made better decisions find someone else but take it slow good luck
Your story is a sad one, that's for sure, but it's not an uncommon one. You sound very level headed and emotionally well balanced. I understand your pain. I think we've all been blindsided before and it shakes us to our very core.
Please realize that what you thought you had with her didn't really exist, otherwise it would not have changed overnight. Please don't try to defend her poor behavior or make excuses for her. If you take her back, you'll be saying that what she did was pardonable; she'll be likely to do it again.
Try not to allow this to make you bitter. You'll understand the lessons in this situation more as the pain subsides. Something very, very similar happened to me except my guy told me in advance that he had feelings for an old flame. We separated as friends, and when his relationship with her didn't work out we gave our relationship another shot.
The old flame came back it the picture, so I was done with this guy. What feelings that remained had been stomped on; I felt nothing but indifference and I closed that chapter of my life.
He came back two years later when their marriage was on the rocks, but I felt nothing--no love, no hatred, no bitterness. Nothing. That's what I wish for you--indifference. You will heal and find someone who can appreciate you more than this girl did. Sounds like you deserve someone better.
I moved on and, praise God, I found the most incredible man who is now my husband. Couples really can live happily ever after. Unfortunately, trust will always be an issue between you and this girl. Maintaining a relationship with her will not be worth it in the long run. Keep your standards high and recover from this hit by staying busy and taking one day at a time.
Good luck.
Come on, you're so much better off without this girl! She's obviously got some issues to push you into moving forward, and then end it! If she cheated, and broke it off, move on! Remember that you were fine before you met her too and your life didn't start the moment she came into it. You haven't lost everything and you can find someone who actually deserves you. Your ex has obviously got some problems if she can cheat on you, and then be mad for people knowing she's a cheater. I know it hurts now, especially since everything changed so suddenly, but that's normal, and those feelings do go away. Go live your life like a single guy should! Go and enjoy life and forget her the way that she tried to forget about you!
so, within the next 5 days, she texts me here and there, calls a couple times to see how things are. i try not to answer, but did once. i didnt work at all for these days and it was so tough. i went out at night with my friends and coworkers and others who gave me support a few days in a row and it helped a bit.
i told a handful of people about her cheating and since we have mutual friends the word got out very fast. she did not like this at all and was upset with me. she became very defensive and even put her facebook headline for a day as ';doesn't like getting thrown under the bus';. i mean wtf. can she disrespect me anymore? so, today i moved a few things out of our place and we decided to talk. i was extremely nervous because i didnt know if she wanted me back or even what i should do. a big part of me wants her back. what we had was so great, and it literally changed overnight. i read in a text to one of her girlfriends that she has talked about wanting to be single and loving me very much at the same time, and not know what to do.
so we had the talk a few hours ago. i went in not knowing what to do and neither did she according to her. but within 10 minutes said we shouldnt be together. so after talking about it, i got almost no answers. she said she didnt know why she cheated....had no clue. i found out she is still friends with the guy, but doesnt like him like that. she liked his carefree college lifestyle. he is 22, a student, a bouncer at one of the bars she works at and she is 24, has 3 jobs and lots of stresses. on top of that, he is not an attractive person. why would she trade down? what i think happened, and she agreed to some certainty is that she got scared about our future. marriage plans, rings, house....we just got a dog together as well. she pushed me hard for all that stuff, that is why i dont get it.
so, we agreed to mutually break up, and i tried to be as strong as i could when talking to her. no crying, shaking, begging. just listening and stonefaced. alot of pain, mixed in with a bit of lightheartedness to break the tension. to top things off, she said im an amazing guy and boyfriend, and would make a great father and husband.....but she doesn't know if she wants that now. she doesn't know what she wants all of a sudden, and i get cheated out of everything! she says she still loves and cares for me, and she knows i feel the same. she admits she made a huge mistake and screwed up things to the point where she didn't think they were fixable. she wants to keep in touch and tried to be hopeful in saying, ';what we had was amazing, and if we are meant to be together, i believe we will be, whether thats 6 months, a year or two';. with that, she got up, sat down next to me and buried her face in my neck and gave me the biggest 5 minute hug ive ever had, crying the whole time. after that, i got up and said cya around and left. im still shocked and it hasnt hit me yet. i feel like i have nothing now and everything i have been wishing for us has been taken away just like that. why do girls in good relationships screw them up for no reason!? im so hurt, confused, stretched thin and sad that i dont know what to do.
Girlfriend cheated on me and wants to break up?
First, take a deep breath and relax.
It sounds like you've been hurt so much to write all of this out.
But there's no way to go but to move on. It may be hard to admit.
I guess the only thing that's holding you back is the fact that you don't understand how this all happened so quickly, or how she can't explain herself.
Go out with your buddies, try to think about it with reason, not with emotion. Just pick a time to sit down and figure out what's bothering you sooo much about this. And figure out how to make it not bother you. It takes time.
Girlfriend cheated on me and wants to break up?
If she really loves you as much as she says, then she'll come back to you.
woah way to long, and if she cheated on you why even bother to go back to her?
I would ditch her because she sounds like a wh0re.
Why would she get mad at you when she cheated on you? She is just mad because everyone knows what a cheater she is. That's pretty sad and I feel sorry for you, I hope you kicked her out of your apartment, and don't talk to her anymore or she'll screw you even worse.
this might sound hard to do, but move on and forget about her. If she's doing all these things behind your back, then she's obviously not worth the time and effort
Don't do anything. You're better off without her, whether you realize that now or not.
My boyfriend hates drinking and now I see why he doesn't like or want me drinking. Our relationship is pretty close to yours actually. He is a great guy, one day he would make a wonderful father and I honestly one day really hope he is my children's father, I love him so much. We'vee been dating for as long as your relationship about too.
We talk about everything, kids and all. I have to admit. Sometimes the thoughts are too much pressure. I am in college and things are hard for me with the expense of school, plus working some crappy job just to makes ends meet. It does leave me bitter sometimes and over worked most definitely. No excuse to cheat though. That's crossing the line. sorry.
And don't listen to all these people answering. Some are right. Remember most people on here are teens or adolescents which doesn't help when you need sound advice from someone who has a better idea of this situation in your life .... right now.
Reading your question ..... yes all of it. There were two things that really stood out to me.
You know what really stood out to me in your question?
The drinking and the 3 jobs she worked.
On top of the fact she worked 3 jobs, maybe the stress was getting to her head and it made her do something dumb like cheat. She didn't like the guy after all.
If you think about it ..... the times she did cheat on you she was drunk.
You should talk with her some more but just give her some time first. (Like a week or two) She should come back, she will realize what she has just lost and it will be hard for you too but hang in there, the best is yet to come.
You should take her back once more but not be so serious this time, just have fun, there's no rush, y'all are still young. Show her things don't have to be so serious and she can have fun so she doesn't feel rushed.
I'd say .... give her one more chance. By the sounds of your question I am certain there is still a lot of love in your relationship. Just give her more space. BUT if she cheats again, I think you will be doing yourself a big favor by letting her go unfortunantly.
I think the jobs and the pressure of being a wife, mother, house keeper someday was getting to her. Maybe she felt a little trapped. No excuse to cheat but this girl must work hard and it sounds like she had too much pressure with the idea of marriage on top of everything.
You might think about working some more so the stress isn't on her like that. Just talk it out and try to balance things a little more with the home life.
Move on with your life. If she slept with another dude then she doesn't respect or love you.
She cheated on you so there will be a second time.
There's a saying ';fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.
I cheated on my husband. We were married for 10 years. Honestly, sometimes I wonder why I did what I did, because my husband was a good husband. But, the excitment and thrill got carried away which lead to the affair. It was exciting. Fresh. New. Women especially thrive on excitment and keeping everything new. I think these days men settle more into the long term commitment family life styles and women are bored of it. NOT ALL WOMEN. I'm just saying some. The experience of the new man was a thril but the experience of the affair keeping it secret was also a thril. I've noticed a lot also women tend to chase the men who treat them less like a lady then the men who show them 100 percent respect. Something else the bar scene isn't good for a committed relationship. If I was you I would just get over her. Time heals all wounds. Because I believe she'd do it again. I know I would.
STAY AWAY FROM HER.
Clearly she doesn't know what she wants. I'm so sorry you got hurt! That's terrible, but you need to know youre worth more than that, and move on with your life. She cheated, and it was NOT like a one time slip up situation, she was having another RELATIONSHIP!!! That's awful, and heartbreaking, and I know you probably want more than anything to just forget about it and go right back to how things were, but you can't, and she doesn't deserve that forgiveness from you. Focus on you, let her focus on her. Stay apart for AT LEAST a year! If you get together, fine- but don't move in with her again, feel things out- You can stay in touch, but VERY loosely! Don't be a doormat, never let anyone treat you that way, that's terrible and I'm SO sorry to hear that this happened to you. It's my VERY worst nightmare!!! My heart goes out to you, and I hope you find some peace and happiness very soon, as well as some love from soneone who will be faithful and loyal!
u need to get rid of her.she does't deserve u there's an old saying once a cheater always a cheater. one day she's gonna look back at what u two had a wish she had made better decisions find someone else but take it slow good luck
Your story is a sad one, that's for sure, but it's not an uncommon one. You sound very level headed and emotionally well balanced. I understand your pain. I think we've all been blindsided before and it shakes us to our very core.
Please realize that what you thought you had with her didn't really exist, otherwise it would not have changed overnight. Please don't try to defend her poor behavior or make excuses for her. If you take her back, you'll be saying that what she did was pardonable; she'll be likely to do it again.
Try not to allow this to make you bitter. You'll understand the lessons in this situation more as the pain subsides. Something very, very similar happened to me except my guy told me in advance that he had feelings for an old flame. We separated as friends, and when his relationship with her didn't work out we gave our relationship another shot.
The old flame came back it the picture, so I was done with this guy. What feelings that remained had been stomped on; I felt nothing but indifference and I closed that chapter of my life.
He came back two years later when their marriage was on the rocks, but I felt nothing--no love, no hatred, no bitterness. Nothing. That's what I wish for you--indifference. You will heal and find someone who can appreciate you more than this girl did. Sounds like you deserve someone better.
I moved on and, praise God, I found the most incredible man who is now my husband. Couples really can live happily ever after. Unfortunately, trust will always be an issue between you and this girl. Maintaining a relationship with her will not be worth it in the long run. Keep your standards high and recover from this hit by staying busy and taking one day at a time.
Good luck.
Come on, you're so much better off without this girl! She's obviously got some issues to push you into moving forward, and then end it! If she cheated, and broke it off, move on! Remember that you were fine before you met her too and your life didn't start the moment she came into it. You haven't lost everything and you can find someone who actually deserves you. Your ex has obviously got some problems if she can cheat on you, and then be mad for people knowing she's a cheater. I know it hurts now, especially since everything changed so suddenly, but that's normal, and those feelings do go away. Go live your life like a single guy should! Go and enjoy life and forget her the way that she tried to forget about you!
How can you get a guy to break up with girlfriend?
we have already made out and hang out ALL the time, so yeah it's cheating but i have come to grow major feelings for this guy.
And so has he, yesterday we discussed this and he won't break up with her because, i quote ';She's had a ****** up life, and i'm all she has, i'll feel like the biggest *** if i did';. He also told me he's always really liked me. They've been going out for like almost a year....i'm so frustrated, i don't know what to do
help? advice?How can you get a guy to break up with girlfriend?
what you need to do is take a long hard look at yourself in the mirror. leave the guy alone he is with someone so back offHow can you get a guy to break up with girlfriend?
wtf.
your sucha homewrecker.
omg.
this is so selfish.
why would u do that?
shes already had a tough time with her life and found someone who she ';THOUGHT'; could change that.
wow this guys a jerk too.
MADEOUT!
pretttyy skankish if u ask me.
ohhmyggawwsh.
i cant believe people these daysss.
If he cheats with you....he'll cheat on ya.
I think his answers are lame...her life is @@@@ up and I'm all she has...!!?? Oh good God!
Next thing you know...he will be saying the same thing to another girl about why he's still with you.
I know this isn't what you wanted to hear...but drop him like a rock...he's just playing.>windows update triumph
And so has he, yesterday we discussed this and he won't break up with her because, i quote ';She's had a ****** up life, and i'm all she has, i'll feel like the biggest *** if i did';. He also told me he's always really liked me. They've been going out for like almost a year....i'm so frustrated, i don't know what to do
help? advice?How can you get a guy to break up with girlfriend?
what you need to do is take a long hard look at yourself in the mirror. leave the guy alone he is with someone so back offHow can you get a guy to break up with girlfriend?
wtf.
your sucha homewrecker.
omg.
this is so selfish.
why would u do that?
shes already had a tough time with her life and found someone who she ';THOUGHT'; could change that.
wow this guys a jerk too.
MADEOUT!
pretttyy skankish if u ask me.
ohhmyggawwsh.
i cant believe people these daysss.
If he cheats with you....he'll cheat on ya.
I think his answers are lame...her life is @@@@ up and I'm all she has...!!?? Oh good God!
Next thing you know...he will be saying the same thing to another girl about why he's still with you.
I know this isn't what you wanted to hear...but drop him like a rock...he's just playing.
How do i convince my best friend to break up with his girlfriend?
Well, me and my other 2 friends are like the ****** 3 musketeers and one of them started dating a girl like 6 months ago and he's been different ever since. In essence, i want my friend back, and my other friend agrees with me. So- i need some help here. Any suggestions are greatly appreciated no matter how corrupt they are ( actually i'd prefer corrupt ideas) --------ThanksHow do i convince my best friend to break up with his girlfriend?
One day when you grow up and get a girlfriend you will understand. You wouldn't want anyone trying to break you up with your girlfriend. If you were really his friend you would want him to be happy. You are only thinking of yourself.How do i convince my best friend to break up with his girlfriend?
i suggest you tell him to how hes acting and how you feel about it. give him a good reason to break up with this gurl. and if he doesnt wanna break up wit her tell him to change back to what he was before.
im trying to do the same thing right now its hard as hell
if he realy loves her theres not much you can do unfortunetly
i guess you could try to frame her cheating on him or the other way around
seduce her when shes drunk
i dunno good luck
first of all you cant be like that if you are his so call friend. friends don't do that to each other. you need to grow up and think about getting a gf for your self. stop being jealous and maybe ask him if you guys can have a guy night out or something. but you need to grow up really and understand that you cant mess around with that. so ok good luck
meet up wih your 3 muskateer group...and tell him how you feel
dont tell himt o break up weith his gf...tell him you guys need to spend more time with eachother
friends come first
One day when you grow up and get a girlfriend you will understand. You wouldn't want anyone trying to break you up with your girlfriend. If you were really his friend you would want him to be happy. You are only thinking of yourself.How do i convince my best friend to break up with his girlfriend?
i suggest you tell him to how hes acting and how you feel about it. give him a good reason to break up with this gurl. and if he doesnt wanna break up wit her tell him to change back to what he was before.
im trying to do the same thing right now its hard as hell
if he realy loves her theres not much you can do unfortunetly
i guess you could try to frame her cheating on him or the other way around
seduce her when shes drunk
i dunno good luck
first of all you cant be like that if you are his so call friend. friends don't do that to each other. you need to grow up and think about getting a gf for your self. stop being jealous and maybe ask him if you guys can have a guy night out or something. but you need to grow up really and understand that you cant mess around with that. so ok good luck
meet up wih your 3 muskateer group...and tell him how you feel
dont tell himt o break up weith his gf...tell him you guys need to spend more time with eachother
friends come first
I want to break up with my girlfriend how do I tell her?
I almost certain she a internet hoe. She lied about taking a offer from my Friend on myspace for sex, she claim she forgot her Yahoo Email password, SHe claims she in love with me and im the man of her dreams after Knowing me for 2 weeks. she said she nothing without me. She also said she wanted a baby daddy.
How to tell her
don'tnt want to hurt her feelingI want to break up with my girlfriend how do I tell her?
send her a gift basket from bath and body works, but spike the shampoo and conditioner with Nair.
She'll get the hint
How to tell her
don'tnt want to hurt her feelingI want to break up with my girlfriend how do I tell her?
send her a gift basket from bath and body works, but spike the shampoo and conditioner with Nair.
She'll get the hint
Why Did My Girlfriend Break Up With Me?
Well im just wondering mostly from a girls prospective why my girlfriend broke up with me :/ well it was all back a week ago on thursday December 17 2009 almost 2 months dating :] im that kinda guy most girls wishes their boyfriends would act like, respectful, open minded to her ideas and thoughts, a good listener, knows how to make her laugh, and most importantly a good boyfriend as well as being her best friend. We could see each other at school everyday (im 15 freshman in highschool) and i thought she was amazing ive known her since kintergarden and her dreamy topaz eyes and dancer body made my eyes pop and her sweet laugh.. i couldnt help but join in laughing with her :) well id always thought wow i wish if anything i could have a chance with her.. and next thing i know shes holding my hand and im just head over heels for her. Time passes by too quickly it seems now.. we went to the movies, hung at my house, she loved to make out with me when we were alone and later on in the relationship we did some minor sexual things but what teenager doesnt am i right? well she'd been hanging out a lot with this guy rodney and i trust her 100% as i do with every girlfriend i have. I can tell they flirt a lot but thats nothing so we go on and its wierd how you never know where the peak of your relationship was until its over.. well it reached that point in time and she told me i was perfect and just too sweet because i wrote her a little love poem and gave her a present for our ';one month anniversery'; dont get whats so special about one month of dating but why turn down a celebration with your girlfriend? well the present was FOR our one month but i didnt finish it until around 15 days later (I tried to make it as romantic as possible because she loves that so it took a little while longer) and 2 days after i was ';perfect'; she broke up with me. Luckily i knew it was coming because all the ';i love yous'; and smiley faces dissappeared from the txts and well one year of psychology my mom made me go to from my first break up devastation(suicidal i was crazy %26gt;.%26gt; dumb reason i realize that now ) i had prepared myself as much as i could in the two day period so i had some cushion to fall on so-to-speak. I let her know and i quote ';its ok and when i told you i loved you i meant i want whatever makes you happy so dont feel bad ill always be here for you, im still the best friend i was before nothings changed and nothing will'; I asked her why soon after she thanked me for being so understanding and she just said and again i quote ';well idk i just dont feel the same about you as i did before'; Now lets think...i didnt change at all and my feelings for her grew everyday. i never sexually pressured her or gave her a reason to break up with me, now shes going out with rodney. I just want to know something despite my psychology classes i cant tell if she broke up with me for rodney or what she said, or if she was cold hearted enough to break up with me for no reason. My thoughts are a little foggy right now and i just need some help from you guys and a little comfort im still fragile over the breakup. But my statement stands i want what makes her happy but happiness sometimes comes with sacrifices which is fine with me. id just appreciate the truth which i dont know if she is telling the truth or protecting me from a hurtful truth about another guy. Thanks a lot :)Why Did My Girlfriend Break Up With Me?
She broke up with you because it's high school and that's just a fact of the matter for High school students. I know it's easy to get attached in high school with all the hormones and newness of girls. But everyone will jump around a little. She saw something she liked more in another guy.
You just need to go find another girl. There is someone in that school for you.
She broke up with you because it's high school and that's just a fact of the matter for High school students. I know it's easy to get attached in high school with all the hormones and newness of girls. But everyone will jump around a little. She saw something she liked more in another guy.
You just need to go find another girl. There is someone in that school for you.
Friend dosn't know how to break up with girlfriend!?
hes like 13 and he wants to break up with his old primary school girlfriend but he has lots of friends who are in her group so if he breaks up with her, his social life might be screwed. He really needs a way to break up with her and still keep his social life and his friendships going!Friend dosn't know how to break up with girlfriend!?
so tell him to brake up with her its not like he's doing anything guilty. He just has to be normal about things and not act nervous after.
so tell him to brake up with her its not like he's doing anything guilty. He just has to be normal about things and not act nervous after.
Is this guy going to break up with his girlfriend?
He told me he doesn't even know when their 6-month is (which is quite soon)
and kept saying these things about how she was wrong...and told his other girl friend (just a friend) that they don't really talk anymore
... ?Is this guy going to break up with his girlfriend?
yes, because we can tell the future.
and kept saying these things about how she was wrong...and told his other girl friend (just a friend) that they don't really talk anymore
... ?Is this guy going to break up with his girlfriend?
yes, because we can tell the future.
Need to break up with girlfriend?
i need to break up with my girlfriend. i do still love her but not enough as i should do i think its more of a crush than true love but when i speak to her on msn i tell her i love her in most sentences. but i know who my true love is and its not the girl i am with now i need some tips on how to break up with her without her being upset i know she loves me a lot but i cant go on with her knowing that i love another girl more what can i do ?Need to break up with girlfriend?
if you reaaly want it to be over wth this girl and move on to the next. be honest. at least you wont leave her wondering which is sometimes worse!Need to break up with girlfriend?
just be A MAN and break up with her. honestly you don't care about her feelings since you do love someone else. just give her the boot! it's easy as that
JUST TELL HER HOW YO FEEL THAT YOU DONT WANNE BE WITH HER OR TELL HER YOU GOT DRUNK ONE DAY N SLEPT WITH SIMEINE YOU DIDN KNO GOT HER PREGNANT N WELL SHES KEEPIN IT LOL
it doesnt matter how you do it she will get upset! but you have to do it! dont keep leading her on, just tell her the truth and tell her that you still want to be friends!! and what ever you do break up with her in person!! goodluck!
He!l son, you don't love anybody. You don't know what it means. Stop playing games. You don't tell someone you LOVE them because you want to get in their pants.
Tell her you have a crush on someone else and you can't help how you feel. She will probably be upset no matter what, but in the long run she'll appreciate your honesty, especially if you aren't a jerk to her.
BREAK UP ON X-MAS
welll i tink you should talk to her first of all stop writing to her dat u love her if u dont... then meet up and tell her how ur feeling and wats going on thru ur mind... tell her dat u just dont feel lyk before andbe honest tell her ur in love with someone else... i know its not gonna b easy telling her but it aint gonna b easy for her either if she loves ya... hopefully dis works.... gud luck!!!
itz betta to tell her why its over then letting her find out by otha ppl.
I was in your situation a little less than a year ago....No matter what, your girlfriend is going to be upset, whether you tell her the truth or not. In my case, I didn't tell my boyfriend the truth. I told him I didn't really want a relationship at the time and I was ';unsure'; of my feelings. He got upset and sure enough about a couple weeks later, he had heard I was with the other guy and that pissed him off so much more. So really, it's all about how your gf will react to the news. If you think she would be somewhat ok with hearing that you have ';unsure'; feelings (which I doubt she'd be ok) then you should tell her the truth, otherwise you may have to tell some white lies.
talk and explain clearly and nicely. make sure that she knows it ain't her fault. will help her to get over the r/s better.
Just tell her the truth. Tell her that you love her but you aren't in love with her, your relationship just doesn't feel right anymore.
Be truthful about it because if not, she will think she's done something wrong.>windows update triumph
if you reaaly want it to be over wth this girl and move on to the next. be honest. at least you wont leave her wondering which is sometimes worse!Need to break up with girlfriend?
just be A MAN and break up with her. honestly you don't care about her feelings since you do love someone else. just give her the boot! it's easy as that
JUST TELL HER HOW YO FEEL THAT YOU DONT WANNE BE WITH HER OR TELL HER YOU GOT DRUNK ONE DAY N SLEPT WITH SIMEINE YOU DIDN KNO GOT HER PREGNANT N WELL SHES KEEPIN IT LOL
it doesnt matter how you do it she will get upset! but you have to do it! dont keep leading her on, just tell her the truth and tell her that you still want to be friends!! and what ever you do break up with her in person!! goodluck!
He!l son, you don't love anybody. You don't know what it means. Stop playing games. You don't tell someone you LOVE them because you want to get in their pants.
Tell her you have a crush on someone else and you can't help how you feel. She will probably be upset no matter what, but in the long run she'll appreciate your honesty, especially if you aren't a jerk to her.
BREAK UP ON X-MAS
welll i tink you should talk to her first of all stop writing to her dat u love her if u dont... then meet up and tell her how ur feeling and wats going on thru ur mind... tell her dat u just dont feel lyk before andbe honest tell her ur in love with someone else... i know its not gonna b easy telling her but it aint gonna b easy for her either if she loves ya... hopefully dis works.... gud luck!!!
itz betta to tell her why its over then letting her find out by otha ppl.
I was in your situation a little less than a year ago....No matter what, your girlfriend is going to be upset, whether you tell her the truth or not. In my case, I didn't tell my boyfriend the truth. I told him I didn't really want a relationship at the time and I was ';unsure'; of my feelings. He got upset and sure enough about a couple weeks later, he had heard I was with the other guy and that pissed him off so much more. So really, it's all about how your gf will react to the news. If you think she would be somewhat ok with hearing that you have ';unsure'; feelings (which I doubt she'd be ok) then you should tell her the truth, otherwise you may have to tell some white lies.
talk and explain clearly and nicely. make sure that she knows it ain't her fault. will help her to get over the r/s better.
Just tell her the truth. Tell her that you love her but you aren't in love with her, your relationship just doesn't feel right anymore.
Be truthful about it because if not, she will think she's done something wrong.
How do i break up with my girlfriend and tell another girl i love her?
this girl i love has a boyfriend and i just want to tell her how i feel. how do i do it and how do i possibly get her to be with me? this girl is perfect and i think we were meant to be. i know that sounds dumb but ive never felt the same around her and i just feel different but in a good way. we met on accident i totally wasnt supposed to be where i was and this is how we met.How do i break up with my girlfriend and tell another girl i love her?
i hope she breaks your heart.
but you have to be respectful to your current girlfriend first. Tell her the truth and that even if this other girl rejects you, you wouldn't be comfortable lying to her about your feelings. decide if you still want to be friends with her, if you don't, don't mention keeping in touch, if you do, tell her you still cherish her as a friend because she's ____, ________, and ________.
THEN, and only then, can you even think about approaching this other girl you think that you love. Tell her that you care about her alot more than you think that you should and you want her to be a part of your life. If she tells you she has a bf and wants to be loyal, then respect that and just ask you guys can hang out, go to lunch or something. Do not tell her you love her or like her, she'll think you are a horrible person for breaking up with your gf for her. Take it slow, be her friend, then her she gets in fights with her bf you can be the guy she goes to and when they break up, you can pick up the pieces.How do i break up with my girlfriend and tell another girl i love her?
to be honest dude i wouldnt tell her ';i love you';.. u can talk to her and let her know how u feel but also that might make it kinda akward when u see her if she says no, but never be afraid to over the top... maybe ask a friend of hers to see if shes into u... if everything seems to point in a direction u dont want then maybe it wasnt ment to be...
you tell your girlfriend that you don't love her and you tell the other girl that you do love her.
thats cruel you cant do that
i hope she breaks your heart.
but you have to be respectful to your current girlfriend first. Tell her the truth and that even if this other girl rejects you, you wouldn't be comfortable lying to her about your feelings. decide if you still want to be friends with her, if you don't, don't mention keeping in touch, if you do, tell her you still cherish her as a friend because she's ____, ________, and ________.
THEN, and only then, can you even think about approaching this other girl you think that you love. Tell her that you care about her alot more than you think that you should and you want her to be a part of your life. If she tells you she has a bf and wants to be loyal, then respect that and just ask you guys can hang out, go to lunch or something. Do not tell her you love her or like her, she'll think you are a horrible person for breaking up with your gf for her. Take it slow, be her friend, then her she gets in fights with her bf you can be the guy she goes to and when they break up, you can pick up the pieces.How do i break up with my girlfriend and tell another girl i love her?
to be honest dude i wouldnt tell her ';i love you';.. u can talk to her and let her know how u feel but also that might make it kinda akward when u see her if she says no, but never be afraid to over the top... maybe ask a friend of hers to see if shes into u... if everything seems to point in a direction u dont want then maybe it wasnt ment to be...
you tell your girlfriend that you don't love her and you tell the other girl that you do love her.
thats cruel you cant do that
How can i break up with my girlfriend?
i left her twice but when we meet or she calls up, she begs and i cant resist her voice , crying and begging for me not to leave her. i want to leave her because im soo bored with our relationship, we meet once a week.How can i break up with my girlfriend?
There is no point in staying with her if you do not see a future for your relationship - you need to break it off once and for all! It sounds like you're going to have to stop all contact until she gets over you and then you could maybe try to be friends but if you continue to see each other once a week you're going to find yourself in a never ending cycle.How can i break up with my girlfriend?
You have already told her that it is over.
The more you are willing to talk to her, the more she gets the impression there is still a chance.
She is so desperate she will even tolerate being mistreated and used just to have you.
Tell her to stop calling and stick by it. Than refer her to a friend or counselor who can help her work out her emotional issues.
Continuing to talk to her is crippling her more from moving on, but maybe you don't want it that way, you want her at your disposal maybe because you have issues too.
break up then dont talk to her or see her until you are over it completely. dont answer when she calls. time apart will get rid of the feelings you still have that keep you going back. if you want out then get out, she will probably call you a lot during the first couple weeks apart but if you dont answer and dont she any attention to her begging she will eventually stop and move on.... good luck- it's a tough situation you're in!
sounds like she is desperate. whenever she calls tell her hwy u keep breaking up with her. shes obviously very lonely. buy her a dog or even a goldfish someone to keep her company. does she have a friend? why dont u be ehr friend dont boyfriend but casual friend. maybe hook her up with one of ur friends get a group of friends and go bowling or soemthing. she probably has nobody. shes obviously lonely...
Take her to the movies, make sure its a fair distance from where she lives, makes sure she has no money or cellphone. Then say your going to go get popcorn and just leave her there...im sure she will get the picture
be gentle and nice. if she cant accept it then maybe you should buy a present. stay friends and go out with her when YOU are ready and just think what you are pushing yourself into when she begs.
be strong and get through it. she will get over it....eventually. just dont answer when she calls you. sounds mean, but its what you ahve to do.
tell her its not working and you just dont think you should be together. but wateva u do dont say u just want to be friends
just turn into an a*shole for a couple days and make her break up with you
There is no point in staying with her if you do not see a future for your relationship - you need to break it off once and for all! It sounds like you're going to have to stop all contact until she gets over you and then you could maybe try to be friends but if you continue to see each other once a week you're going to find yourself in a never ending cycle.How can i break up with my girlfriend?
You have already told her that it is over.
The more you are willing to talk to her, the more she gets the impression there is still a chance.
She is so desperate she will even tolerate being mistreated and used just to have you.
Tell her to stop calling and stick by it. Than refer her to a friend or counselor who can help her work out her emotional issues.
Continuing to talk to her is crippling her more from moving on, but maybe you don't want it that way, you want her at your disposal maybe because you have issues too.
break up then dont talk to her or see her until you are over it completely. dont answer when she calls. time apart will get rid of the feelings you still have that keep you going back. if you want out then get out, she will probably call you a lot during the first couple weeks apart but if you dont answer and dont she any attention to her begging she will eventually stop and move on.... good luck- it's a tough situation you're in!
sounds like she is desperate. whenever she calls tell her hwy u keep breaking up with her. shes obviously very lonely. buy her a dog or even a goldfish someone to keep her company. does she have a friend? why dont u be ehr friend dont boyfriend but casual friend. maybe hook her up with one of ur friends get a group of friends and go bowling or soemthing. she probably has nobody. shes obviously lonely...
Take her to the movies, make sure its a fair distance from where she lives, makes sure she has no money or cellphone. Then say your going to go get popcorn and just leave her there...im sure she will get the picture
be gentle and nice. if she cant accept it then maybe you should buy a present. stay friends and go out with her when YOU are ready and just think what you are pushing yourself into when she begs.
be strong and get through it. she will get over it....eventually. just dont answer when she calls you. sounds mean, but its what you ahve to do.
tell her its not working and you just dont think you should be together. but wateva u do dont say u just want to be friends
just turn into an a*shole for a couple days and make her break up with you
How should I break up with my girlfriend?
I have been dated this girl for a few months, but I am concerned that she is only interested in my money. After some advice from friends, I feel that I need to end things with her. How should I break the news to her? Should I be nice?How should I break up with my girlfriend?
Ya - always be nice - never burn bridges. You can be frank without being mean or accusing. I would let her know that you just aren't feeling a connection and you want to end things now before it goes on too long this way, and so that you can remain friends.
Good luck!How should I break up with my girlfriend?
Always be nice because for one, you don't want to be known as the bad guy, and two, you never know what the future holds. Do it nicely, and do it in person. Texts, emails and chat breakups are just plain rude. Good luck.
Don't do something crazy like pretending something that would make her break up with you. Just say I don't want to be your boyfriend we should still be friends. Or something like that.
dont be a jerk when u break up:P just be nice and dont make up a big story!!
make her break up with you
or pretend to run out of cash
Ya - always be nice - never burn bridges. You can be frank without being mean or accusing. I would let her know that you just aren't feeling a connection and you want to end things now before it goes on too long this way, and so that you can remain friends.
Good luck!How should I break up with my girlfriend?
Always be nice because for one, you don't want to be known as the bad guy, and two, you never know what the future holds. Do it nicely, and do it in person. Texts, emails and chat breakups are just plain rude. Good luck.
Don't do something crazy like pretending something that would make her break up with you. Just say I don't want to be your boyfriend we should still be friends. Or something like that.
dont be a jerk when u break up:P just be nice and dont make up a big story!!
make her break up with you
or pretend to run out of cash
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