My girlfriend; break up with her, or give her the gift?

I have a girlfriend, we've been dating for about a month and a half now, but we've been friends since November. I hang out with her everyday after school, but our relationship has only gone as far as hugging. I want to kiss her, and I've been thinking of the perfect way how. So, I bought her $120 dollar necklace, which is alot, based off the average eight graders wallet.


BUT (ofcourse)! there's this kid who we're friends with, who only comes here about once every two weeks. It's clear that he likes her, but it's unclear if she likes him back. Just today infact, my girlfriend kissed him on the cheek when he had to leave. Kissed, and they also hug each other constantly- which is a pretty big feat for only knowing him for 10 days. We never hugged when we were friends, and we most definately didn't kiss. They even seem to be further into a relationship than me and her, which really bothers me. Problem is, I still like her... and the necklace could help solve it. So, gift or Break-up?My girlfriend; break up with her, or give her the gift?
Take the necklace get your money back, and tell her to fucl%26lt; off.My girlfriend; break up with her, or give her the gift?
even if you do decide to stay with her...don't give her the necklace.


if my daughter came home with an expensive gift from her eighth grade boyfriend, i'd send it back to school with her.


it's just not appropritae.
First, I am impressed that you have saved $120! I know how if feels to really like someone and not have them feel the same way about you. But I have learned that if you have to buy someone something (or do something that doesn't make you feel good about yourself) then maybe you have to rethink your relationship. You want someone who will like you for Who you are, not for what you can give them. As much as it might hurt to have to let that person go and follow their own path it will only hurt more later after you have invested more time and thoughts into that person. I vote you return the necklace and buy yourself something that you have been wanting.


Hope things turn out for you.
talk, than make your decision.


It's clear she likes him, so get her to talk about it. ANd if she lies to you, break up. Make it clear that this is really bothering you, don't let her be vague. Make her be specific.
gift, make ur move then n get ahead of that kid
Don't use the necklace to ';get'; her.


1) she'll just take the necklace thinking it's a friendly gift and now you're out $120.00.


2) if she does take the necklace and now starts liking you, would you want a girl like that?





Hold on to the necklace (or return it and get it later) and see where your relationship goes. Kiss on the cheek doesn't mean anything. You could kiss her on the cheek and see what happens.
I say you are to young to be worrying about this stuff. If something happens let it happen, if it doesn't then let it go. Cash in the necklace and buy your mom something for


M-Day!!!!
You are in 8th grade. There is plenty of time to find the right partner for you.





Return the necklace and put the money in your college fund.
Or you can just randomly one day walk up and plant a kiss right on her lips, most likely she'll kiss you back. She's waiting for you to make the first move. She's using this other guy to make you jealous. She wants you to get feisty and actually kiss her. Don't give her the necklace yet. Keep ahold of that necklace until that moreso specialer girl comes along. There will be plenty. but just remember, don't get jealous.
There are three rules that I have found helpful in my dealings with the XX chromosomes. I hope that they will help you.


Rule one: money will not get her. Women cannot be bought, no amount of flowers, necklaces, horse-drawn carriages, or candle-lit dinners will get the woman you want to reciprocate. Rule two: don't assume anything! Sometimes ambiguity or vagueness can add flavor to a relationship, but not in the long-term cases. You say she is your girlfriend, how do you know that? Did you assume? Holding hands? Women are flirtacious by nature so don't assume anything. If there was a girlfriend-boyfriend conversation then you should have kissed her then; furhtermore, you have an open door to kiss her at any time you feel appropriate--I mean that's kind of the idea right? (I am granting you can sense appropiate times)


Rule three: make the rules clear. Rules govern our everyday, so in turn they govern all of our relationships. The dating scene is no exception. If you are uncomfortable with her kissing other guys then say it. Be careful not to come off as jealous, but don't ever tip-toe for someone. Because as soon as you do you will find yourself doing more dancing than you ever expected.





In the end be a man. Stick up for yourself and your feelings.
A monetary gift will not solve the issue at hand. Do not give her the necklace just to get her to give you more attention. Communication is always number one in a relationship. Sit down with her and have a heart-to-heart talk. Find out how she feels about you and get everything out in the open as far as this other guy is concerned as well. Honesty and trust are vital parts to a relationship whether it be a friend or a girlfriend.
First off, where the heck does an 8th grader get 120 dollars?!





Secondly, you may end up giving her the necklace, but it's a sure thing she's going to leave you at some point. Then you've gotten yourself into a rut of giving women gifts just to keep them with you. And you'll find yourself a broke, lonely man by the time you hit your mid-20's. Break the cycle now, get out of that mindset and find girls that will like you for who you are, not what you can give them. You'll be better off in the long run.
well, ask her about it first. and see wut she says. and then if u think she is lying to you then wait till the next time they see each other then ask her again. if u still think shes lying then end it! save that nice neaklace for a girl that you know you can trust.
omg i'm in the 8th grade to i wish we had some guys like you at my school but n-e-ways save it till ya'll are going out for more then a month and a half
Whether or not you stay together, the necklace is wayyyyy too much. Gift her something else.





As for the necklace, give it to mom or grandma! She'll always be there, unlike the girl. And your mom will appreciate it more. Show her your appreciation! Lol.