Friday, August 20, 2010

How can i break up with my girlfriend?

i left her twice but when we meet or she calls up, she begs and i cant resist her voice , crying and begging for me not to leave her. i want to leave her because im soo bored with our relationship, we meet once a week.How can i break up with my girlfriend?
There is no point in staying with her if you do not see a future for your relationship - you need to break it off once and for all! It sounds like you're going to have to stop all contact until she gets over you and then you could maybe try to be friends but if you continue to see each other once a week you're going to find yourself in a never ending cycle.How can i break up with my girlfriend?
You have already told her that it is over.


The more you are willing to talk to her, the more she gets the impression there is still a chance.


She is so desperate she will even tolerate being mistreated and used just to have you.


Tell her to stop calling and stick by it. Than refer her to a friend or counselor who can help her work out her emotional issues.


Continuing to talk to her is crippling her more from moving on, but maybe you don't want it that way, you want her at your disposal maybe because you have issues too.
break up then dont talk to her or see her until you are over it completely. dont answer when she calls. time apart will get rid of the feelings you still have that keep you going back. if you want out then get out, she will probably call you a lot during the first couple weeks apart but if you dont answer and dont she any attention to her begging she will eventually stop and move on.... good luck- it's a tough situation you're in!
sounds like she is desperate. whenever she calls tell her hwy u keep breaking up with her. shes obviously very lonely. buy her a dog or even a goldfish someone to keep her company. does she have a friend? why dont u be ehr friend dont boyfriend but casual friend. maybe hook her up with one of ur friends get a group of friends and go bowling or soemthing. she probably has nobody. shes obviously lonely...
Take her to the movies, make sure its a fair distance from where she lives, makes sure she has no money or cellphone. Then say your going to go get popcorn and just leave her there...im sure she will get the picture
be gentle and nice. if she cant accept it then maybe you should buy a present. stay friends and go out with her when YOU are ready and just think what you are pushing yourself into when she begs.
be strong and get through it. she will get over it....eventually. just dont answer when she calls you. sounds mean, but its what you ahve to do.
tell her its not working and you just dont think you should be together. but wateva u do dont say u just want to be friends
just turn into an a*shole for a couple days and make her break up with you

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