How would i break up with my girlfriend for my ex without sounding horrible?

ok i love my current girlfriend but we only connect physically. and i feel like the only thing thats keeping this relationship together is lust. i dont want to hurt her feelings but i dont want to build a relationship on lust. my ex was talking to me and confessed she still liked me. i broke up with her because she was changing and was way too open so i thought if i wasnt around she could do whatever she wanted and be happy, damn was i wrong. now i feel horrible for breaking up with her and now shes changing for the better. lately ive just been feeling like i wanted to be with her terribly bad that i started crying.


so really how do i break up with a girl that my hormones went crazy for, for a girl that i actually loved but made a mistake with? =[How would i break up with my girlfriend for my ex without sounding horrible?
Well, it does sound kind of bad, however, you cant tell your heart what to feel. If your current gf only stimulates you sexually, then its bad for her too because she is wasting her time with a guy who doesnt appreciate or understand who she is on a personal level (not saying its a bad thing, some people just dont have that kind of chemistry).








Tell her openly and honestly. Please, before doing anything though...ARE YOU SURE THIS IS WHAT U WANT? Once you tell her this, theres no going back...and if you realize that your feelings was just nostalgia, and that you really love your current gf...you will have serious issues buddy.





Also, are you sure ur ex has changed? Sometimes we potray to be people we are not. You should know, as time passes by we get to the know the real person. Just because you guys been chatting doesnt mean what she tells you is the truth.








Anyway, if you are ready, just be open and honest. Tell her its not working out, you feel she deserves better. You dont feel a connection. If she is in love with you, yes you will break her heart, but life goes on.





Good Luck. How would i break up with my girlfriend for my ex without sounding horrible?
Well, first off, you can't love your current gf if the only connection is lust! Really, you should keep this from your current gf - the whole wanting to get back with your ex. Break up with your gf, be honest about the only connection being physical - but don't tell her you want to be with your ex. Just wait around, let things cool off, then get back with your ex after awhile. You will start so much drama if you tell your gf that you are leaving her for your ex and you will sound like an asshole.
Simple girls want the truth no matter how much it hurts. Let your current gf know how you really feel. Tell her that you don't think you could build a real relationship off of lust alone, that you want more. And yes this will hurt her feelings but lets face it you can't break up with someone in a nice way, no matter how hard you try.
Just tell her that you just don't really have any feelings for her. Don't tell her about you getting back with your ex. Good Luck!!!
Well I am a chick and honestly there is no easier way than just simply telling her the truth. I don't know if you want your current girlfriend or should I say future-ex as your friend but you never know what your future holds and I can honestly say that I have been hurt by some scum bags but mostly because they were not man enough to just tell the truth. Don't let that be you. Just be a man and tell her what you put above about you feel like you only connect with her physically and that's not all you are looking for. Chances are if there is something that is not there, it's probably missing on both sides. I know that was the case with my past relations anyway. She may totally agree and it may be better than you expected. I really don't think you need to let her know too much, like you are going back to your ex. And just some words of advice. I wouldn't jump back in with the ex either, I mean have fun and go out, but take your time and ease back into your relationship with her. There is no reason to rush if neither one of you are going anywhere, right?





Hope this helps! Good luck!