How to break up with my girlfriend?

I loved her a lot at one time, but one day I woke up and realized that there was nothing there anymore. I don't want to hurt her cause it's been about a year, and I know life really sucks! :.( What do I do or say?!???How to break up with my girlfriend?
just say 'i really loved you as my girlfriend, but i dont think i'm emotionally committed to this relationship any more.';How to break up with my girlfriend?
just do it after a long weekend together, have sex and break it to her in the morning. dont give an explanation.
Whatever you do DO NOT drag it out over a long weekend as someone suggested! Try to make it as short as humanly possible. Explain to her what your feeling or in your case, not feeling. Keep in mind she is going to think that this is her fault and that she has done something wrong.





There is going to be a lot of confusion and anger in this. She is going to try and change your mind probably, ask if there's anything she can do to make you love her again.





You need to make it very clear that your feelings will never change and that there is no other option but to break up. Even if she starts crying and getting really upset and you want to comfort her, DO NOT lead her on by saying your feelings might come back sometime.





A clean break is best. Hope this helps, good luck.
1. Avoid any big dates (e.g. birthdays, anniversaries).


2. Say it like it is! DO NOT BEAT AROUND THE BUSH.


3. NO cliches! (e.g. It's not you, it's me). It just makes you sound thoughtless.


4. Do it in person. No other ways are acceptable (e.g. phone, text, email, myspace, etc.)


5. Do not do it during or after the date. This will likely make her go ballistic and hate you forever.


6. To avoid minimal damage, meet at a place you know that she won't pass by often. You don't want her walking by the place that you guys broke up all the time.


7. Be ready for a proper explanation. Avoid telling her her flaws.


8. Don't do it in a crowded place. If she decides to cry or yell, it will be embarrassing for YOU.





An idea of what to say:





';What we had was great. I loved you, but I just don't feel the connection anymore. I hope that we can stay on good terms. You're a great person and I know you'll be fine.';





Break ups (especially of long term relationships) are difficult. Good luck!
The best thing you can do is to be honest with her. Maybe she is feeling the same way or atleast has a feeling something is wrong. Im sure she kind of has an idea something just isnt right with you.
Tell her the truth. Also let her know that you love her but not in love with her anymore and that you feel you have both grown apart.





Assur her that you will like to be friends with her when she is ready and that you will always be there for her but as a friend. Let her down easy and do it face to face. Sit her down and tell her '; she will always have a spot in your heart but things have changed and you are not in love with her anymore';. ';It hurts you to say that but you think she deserves so much better and she is a great person. '; I hope some of these idea's will help :)


Good luck!