How do I make my son break up with his girlfriend she's biracial and he's white?

my son is 18 and he's datng a 16 year old biracial girl who has got no father and is just living with her mother I can't accept ths my son deserves a white girl from a good normal family,,,but he won't listen to me and she's quite rude too. how do I break them up?How do I make my son break up with his girlfriend she's biracial and he's white?
You don't. How dare you judge people. All white people are not good and normal. Your son likes what he likes and you just have to deal with it. If you try to break them up then it will make him more determined to get the blackest girl he can find. What you hate more will end up in your family. I can't believe you even posted this question you racist peice of $#!+How do I make my son break up with his girlfriend she's biracial and he's white?
First of all....just because she is biracial does not make her not worthy enough to date your son. That's quite judgment of you to make this comment of her and you should actually follow your son because he seems open-minded and non judgmental of others' races. You need to accept that present day is full of mixed couples and your son is one. I think that you should take a deep look at yourself for a while because your question is totally unacceptably, close-minded and that's probably why she is rude to you. By the way, you are not thinking about your son. He is obviously happy with her and the more you keeping making these comments to him is only going to make him want to be around her more. You should just sit down with him and ask him what made him want to date her.
Just because she is biracial and has no father doesn't make her a bad person. Your son deserves whom ever he wants not who you want him to be with. I think you need to accept his decisions or when he moves out is gonna not tell you as much info about his life as possible.Instead of trying to break up him and his girlfriend you need to realize that you are breaking up your relationship with him. And if your being rude to her maybe thats why she is being rude to you.
I'm sorry, Ma'am, but there is no such thing as a white girl from a normal family now. I'm Irish, and my cousins are Hispanic and Black and Native American. There is just no such thing. Everyone's parents are getting divorced, people are allergic to dogs, and Obama is running for president.





Anyway, forcing the issue won't do anything with your adult son. Rude is the way of life, nowadays. You need to know how to be rude to get anywhere, but also how to be sweet. She can be both, but I think you made it obvious that you don't like her.
It's not your place or your choice to decide whom your son dates.





The fact that the girl is biracial is not her choice. The fact that she does not have a father in her life is not her choice. The fat that she has a mother who obviously cares for her that she lives with is wonderful.





I admire your son for not listening to his rude and prejudiced mother.



the biracial part shouldnt have anything to do with it. so what if she is another race. if he likes her, so be it. and just because she is from a broken family doesnt mean she cant live a ';normal'; life. there are plenty of familys who look to be this ';normal'; that you have in mind and be nothing more then a messed up child or adult in the future.. let your son be happy, and if its a mistake, let him learn from it. quit being a racist mother, and get in reality with the world. this ';normal'; your speaking of is nothing but the past. its a whole new ball game out there...
First, the more you try to tell your son not to do something, the more he will want to do it.


I have been dating my bf for fouryears. My parents didn't like him at first but i kept dating him and now we all get along. It will work out.


Maybe his gf is rude because she knows you look down on her, and want your son to break up with her.


Try having an open mind and be accepting. Just because she is biracial doesnt mean she isnt good for him. Racism is not a good thing to practice.
i understand your concerns, and sadly when you ask a question suggesting anything racial these days youre gonna get bashed(literally), but out of motherly love, you asked anyway, thats good.





you stated biracial, i dont think youre rude as many have accused you, since you arent name calling or anything.





but what you do need to realise is that its his life, not yours, whether you accept it or not, and whatever girl he choose, say in some future, when he takes a wife, its their life, you wontt really quite be there in the picture, except youve been nice and they enjoy visiting you often.





may i suggest that you instead of trying to manipulate things to your own likings, pray the best for your son and whatever it is, resign to god's will.





of course, a mother can guide her son to the best possible that there is for him, but what if the best for your son isnt the same thing as the best for you?





Pray for his happiness and pray for his goods, pray that he doesnt get used/manipulated by anyone, etc...





when things are wrong, say so as a 'fact', ex, it would be nice/sweeter if...blahblahblah..., more effective than condamning, and you know, not everyone is lucky enough to have both parents these days, and its quite cruel to sneer at someone because (s)he lost a leg or has only one parent, wouldnt you think?
wow your not only rude but i believe someone has too much pride. try asking a question for yourself inside of trying to break your son up with his gf. if he doesnt want to break up with her leave them alone. its not the girls fault that she doesnt have a father. Deal with it as someone else said its 2008 nearly 2009 get over it. dont make him break up with her otherwise he will just rebel against you anyway and disregaurd your wishes.


DEAL. WITH. IT.


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STOP HAVING SO MUCH PRIDE.
let him date who he wants


and from personal experience, white girls are NOT always the best, sometimes they are the worst





get over the fact that shes a different race and not from a good family. its what she is herself, not where she came from





racist b!+ch
You racist b*tch. I'm biracial.. you're saying were not good enough for you? You need to quit being so prejudice and if they love each other they're gonna stay together. Get over it. I can't wait til Obama wins so that'll piss you off more that a biracial president is in office.
that's pretty racist, so what his girl's biracial? and grew up with no father? and would it be better if the white girl with a ';normal family'; is a total ho? even that would be better than the girl he's with now?
The harder you push the more he will want her. Good for him for knowing that color does not matter. Best of luck to him and his woman may they have many happy years together. And to __// with you.
You don't do anything. This is his decision to make. If you try to push in between them, you'll just alienate your son.





By the way, who cares if she's biracial?
That's not a good reason to want to break them up! Grow up and stop being a racist. Oh, and by the way, he's 18 now (an adult) and can date who ever he wants to date.
If you're not a troll, you're a disgusting racist. If I were your son I'd tell you where to shove it while telling you to join 2008 instead of being stuck in 1958.
if he is happy. Then whats the problem?





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deserves a white girl? what the ef does ethnicity have to do with a relationship... someones racist.
Trying to force it will only cause the exact opposite to happen.





Who your son dates is HIS business. Not yours.
If you try to break then up you will push them together. stay out of it you are not the one having the relationship cut the ties mom
umm


Your horrible!





wow talk about racist.


a girl from a white family doesn't mean that they are good and ';normal';


I hope that your son is smarter and has more compasion than you



What the... if he's happy you should accept it. You sound a little rude also :l
Wow you are a horrible person! Let them be happy. Stop being racist and stay out if his life before he hates you forever!
I'm glad people like you exist so racism will exist long past my death.





Thanks for holding the fort up for the rest of us.








(This post was littered with sarcasm people!) sheesh
Get over your racism! You need to join the real world!
YOUR JUST RACIS..


WHOZ CARES IF HIS WHITE N SHE BIRACIAL..
I didn't know that racists like you still existed.
Wow, get over your racism. It's 2008 girl.
ok u know wat u racist people can back off of your son. he can chose who he wants to date!!!!!!
Nice trolling job. Next time try not to make it so obvious though.
you two should get along....you're quite rude too.