Is it wrong to break up with my girlfriend because she had an abortion in the past?

It was two years ago before we met I have just found out ... I loved her before but now I feel nothing when I look at her, I don't think I can be with someone who would do something like that no matter how much I care about themIs it wrong to break up with my girlfriend because she had an abortion in the past?
Be sure you have the full story from her. Figure out how she feels about it now, if she regrets it, she's probably a stronger person for it. If she seems nonchalant or without any guilt, I would move on.Is it wrong to break up with my girlfriend because she had an abortion in the past?
WOW. That is the worst example of punishing someone over something they CANNOT CHANGE from the PAST that I have ever seen. It had nothing to do with you, it was a hard decision that SHE already is haunted by, and believe me, it was NOT an easy or fun thing to do. I have to give her CREDIT for KNOWING she was NOT ready to be a Mom.





No matter how emotional you want to get over something that frankly is none of your business, you need to know that she is a very strong and much more MATURE person than YOU.
umm....why do women get abortion? Oh yes....sometimes they get abortion because a dude injected his sperm into her and when he found out she was preggers he denied it was his and wanted nothing to do with it so this woman did not want to give birth to a baby who'd probably b fatherless which is unfair since it takes 2 to tango....the father was not willing to help her through her pregnancy...now i dont know u circumstance but that could b y she did it. women don't wake up one morning and decide to get an abortion...it is a serious decision they make and they are usually under a dire circumstance. please try not to judge her....i am sure u arent 100% innocent either and have probably done something in the past she doesn't know about.
Abortion is a ';funny'; word that stirs up emotions always. There are 2 groups.


1. It's okay to have one.


2. It's never okay to have one.





If you and her are a 1 and a 2 then this will always bug you, so it's best if you part ways. You don't want it to be 2 years from now and you are still trying to reconcile this in your own mind. (Meaning that you wasted your time with her).
tsk tsk tsk. Doesn't sound like you were really in love to me. But I guess I can put myself in your shoes and understand where your coming from. It goes against your morals, and its best to find someone who's morals match up with yours so you can have a full and healthy relationship. But if you really feel this way, break it off with her and don't pull her heart strings any longer.





P.S. You know 1 in 4 women will have at least one abortion before they turn 44? Just saying. She can't change her past all you can do is look towards the future.
dude i disagree with abortions but you say you loved her before? well did you? cos if you did it was conditional love...on the basis that you love her on the conditions you set her....unconditional love is real,but i think most of us would find it hard maintain...we are humans we judge each other but we also make MISTAKES.





just think if she hadnt had the abortion..would you 2 be together?








talk it through
If you don't love her anymore, then it's time to break up. I suggest you revise your opinion about abortions. Not all kinds of abortion are wrong. It would be nice to talk to your girlfriend about the circumstances that prompted her to have an abortion.
the girl made a mistake and at that time she felt that was her best option. if your that shallow not to forgive and forget then your right you should probably drop her because you dont deserve her.not saying her decision was right, but it was her decision at the time
its really her choice that shouldn't affect your relationship unless you were the one who got her pregnant and would be the father of the baby. if not its her choice shouldn't have anything to do with you
As much as I hate Abortion, it was in her past, BEFORE you.





What are the background details of the abortion etc.





unless I know the details for why she did it I couldn't give proper advice
You're going to break up with her for doing something that was none of your business to begin with? She deserves better than some anti-choice shallow twit like you. Hopefully she will find a real man who will respect her body and her choices.
It depends. Does she regret having an abortion? if yes then it's possible to forgive her but if not then chuck her as quickly as you can.
No it is not wrong... abortion is murder...
well yes. you have to learn to forgive so that u are also forgiven by God or others
move on then