and what factors play a role? would meeting a better girl (nicer, better looking..) make it easier or is it still hard to let go of someone you care for so much?Guys who have been in long term relationships: how hard is it to break up with your girlfriend?
It can be hard especially if I truly love her.
If I meet a girl with better looks, no I will not break up with my current GF for that. A better personality, and a overall better person to hang out with?-Not always.
If I truly cared and loved a woman, no other woman no matter how good looking she is could change that. That is true for a lot of guys even though that will not admit it.
Friday, August 20, 2010
How do I break up with my girlfriend peacefully and politely?
She's an online girlfriend but I just don't want her to be my girlfriend I have a guilty conscious because I have been living a lie with her, I have lied about myself and I feel guilty, I don't know if I should tell her that or If I should just never respond to her messages ever again.
Should I tell her the real truth? I know it was a stupid thing to do but I am finally starting to come to my senses now realizing what I have done is wrong and I shouldn't feel good about it. I just don't feel like its appropiate to continue faking my love to her, but I am currently because I would hate to break her heart.
I have an idea this idea is that maybe I could make her slowly dislike me or maybe I could try to hint at her Im showing less interest in her..
Is it really best just to ignore her messages forever? I don't think so because it would be mean but I'm just not sure what path to take. Could someone please tell me what they think I should do?How do I break up with my girlfriend peacefully and politely?
I wish I knew.How do I break up with my girlfriend peacefully and politely?
dont keep it going... its just going to be harder on both of you...just tell her that its been really nice to have someone to talk to online and you would love to keep talking to her but you just dont think being in a relationship is working out very well
I think you should tell her the truth. If you have only been talking online, then you can send her an email and explain.
I don't know if she is only your online girlfriend because of physical distance or any other reason but an online relationship should never be taken as seriously as a real relationship. You should both be able to just deal with it and move on.
Still, there is a person on the other side with real feelings. Be brave and at the very least tell her it's over.
do you think she knows something is wrong? don't try to make her slowly dislike you, it will only make things much worse for her. don't ignore her. it will just prolong things. in what way have you lied about yourself? i don't know if you lied about loving her, but if you did don't tell her. it will hurt her far too much. you need to end things as soon as possible because it sounds like she might be going through hell right now because she is so confused. i don't know if you talk to each other via email or msn, but if you use the latter option you need to tell her that way. it's more respect full to her. i know it will be very hard but you need to tell her the whole truth. tell her you want to end things, but don't tell her you don't love her anymore. it would kill her. hope that helped.
tell her the truth and also say the part about you deserve somone better and say you still want to be friends though
Should I tell her the real truth? I know it was a stupid thing to do but I am finally starting to come to my senses now realizing what I have done is wrong and I shouldn't feel good about it. I just don't feel like its appropiate to continue faking my love to her, but I am currently because I would hate to break her heart.
I have an idea this idea is that maybe I could make her slowly dislike me or maybe I could try to hint at her Im showing less interest in her..
Is it really best just to ignore her messages forever? I don't think so because it would be mean but I'm just not sure what path to take. Could someone please tell me what they think I should do?How do I break up with my girlfriend peacefully and politely?
I wish I knew.How do I break up with my girlfriend peacefully and politely?
dont keep it going... its just going to be harder on both of you...just tell her that its been really nice to have someone to talk to online and you would love to keep talking to her but you just dont think being in a relationship is working out very well
I think you should tell her the truth. If you have only been talking online, then you can send her an email and explain.
I don't know if she is only your online girlfriend because of physical distance or any other reason but an online relationship should never be taken as seriously as a real relationship. You should both be able to just deal with it and move on.
Still, there is a person on the other side with real feelings. Be brave and at the very least tell her it's over.
do you think she knows something is wrong? don't try to make her slowly dislike you, it will only make things much worse for her. don't ignore her. it will just prolong things. in what way have you lied about yourself? i don't know if you lied about loving her, but if you did don't tell her. it will hurt her far too much. you need to end things as soon as possible because it sounds like she might be going through hell right now because she is so confused. i don't know if you talk to each other via email or msn, but if you use the latter option you need to tell her that way. it's more respect full to her. i know it will be very hard but you need to tell her the whole truth. tell her you want to end things, but don't tell her you don't love her anymore. it would kill her. hope that helped.
tell her the truth and also say the part about you deserve somone better and say you still want to be friends though
My girlfriend; break up with her, or give her the gift?
I have a girlfriend, we've been dating for about a month and a half now, but we've been friends since November. I hang out with her everyday after school, but our relationship has only gone as far as hugging. I want to kiss her, and I've been thinking of the perfect way how. So, I bought her $120 dollar necklace, which is alot, based off the average eight graders wallet.
BUT (ofcourse)! there's this kid who we're friends with, who only comes here about once every two weeks. It's clear that he likes her, but it's unclear if she likes him back. Just today infact, my girlfriend kissed him on the cheek when he had to leave. Kissed, and they also hug each other constantly- which is a pretty big feat for only knowing him for 10 days. We never hugged when we were friends, and we most definately didn't kiss. They even seem to be further into a relationship than me and her, which really bothers me. Problem is, I still like her... and the necklace could help solve it. So, gift or Break-up?My girlfriend; break up with her, or give her the gift?
Take the necklace get your money back, and tell her to fucl%26lt; off.My girlfriend; break up with her, or give her the gift?
even if you do decide to stay with her...don't give her the necklace.
if my daughter came home with an expensive gift from her eighth grade boyfriend, i'd send it back to school with her.
it's just not appropritae.
First, I am impressed that you have saved $120! I know how if feels to really like someone and not have them feel the same way about you. But I have learned that if you have to buy someone something (or do something that doesn't make you feel good about yourself) then maybe you have to rethink your relationship. You want someone who will like you for Who you are, not for what you can give them. As much as it might hurt to have to let that person go and follow their own path it will only hurt more later after you have invested more time and thoughts into that person. I vote you return the necklace and buy yourself something that you have been wanting.
Hope things turn out for you.
talk, than make your decision.
It's clear she likes him, so get her to talk about it. ANd if she lies to you, break up. Make it clear that this is really bothering you, don't let her be vague. Make her be specific.
gift, make ur move then n get ahead of that kid
Don't use the necklace to ';get'; her.
1) she'll just take the necklace thinking it's a friendly gift and now you're out $120.00.
2) if she does take the necklace and now starts liking you, would you want a girl like that?
Hold on to the necklace (or return it and get it later) and see where your relationship goes. Kiss on the cheek doesn't mean anything. You could kiss her on the cheek and see what happens.
I say you are to young to be worrying about this stuff. If something happens let it happen, if it doesn't then let it go. Cash in the necklace and buy your mom something for
M-Day!!!!
You are in 8th grade. There is plenty of time to find the right partner for you.
Return the necklace and put the money in your college fund.
Or you can just randomly one day walk up and plant a kiss right on her lips, most likely she'll kiss you back. She's waiting for you to make the first move. She's using this other guy to make you jealous. She wants you to get feisty and actually kiss her. Don't give her the necklace yet. Keep ahold of that necklace until that moreso specialer girl comes along. There will be plenty. but just remember, don't get jealous.
There are three rules that I have found helpful in my dealings with the XX chromosomes. I hope that they will help you.
Rule one: money will not get her. Women cannot be bought, no amount of flowers, necklaces, horse-drawn carriages, or candle-lit dinners will get the woman you want to reciprocate. Rule two: don't assume anything! Sometimes ambiguity or vagueness can add flavor to a relationship, but not in the long-term cases. You say she is your girlfriend, how do you know that? Did you assume? Holding hands? Women are flirtacious by nature so don't assume anything. If there was a girlfriend-boyfriend conversation then you should have kissed her then; furhtermore, you have an open door to kiss her at any time you feel appropriate--I mean that's kind of the idea right? (I am granting you can sense appropiate times)
Rule three: make the rules clear. Rules govern our everyday, so in turn they govern all of our relationships. The dating scene is no exception. If you are uncomfortable with her kissing other guys then say it. Be careful not to come off as jealous, but don't ever tip-toe for someone. Because as soon as you do you will find yourself doing more dancing than you ever expected.
In the end be a man. Stick up for yourself and your feelings.
A monetary gift will not solve the issue at hand. Do not give her the necklace just to get her to give you more attention. Communication is always number one in a relationship. Sit down with her and have a heart-to-heart talk. Find out how she feels about you and get everything out in the open as far as this other guy is concerned as well. Honesty and trust are vital parts to a relationship whether it be a friend or a girlfriend.
First off, where the heck does an 8th grader get 120 dollars?!
Secondly, you may end up giving her the necklace, but it's a sure thing she's going to leave you at some point. Then you've gotten yourself into a rut of giving women gifts just to keep them with you. And you'll find yourself a broke, lonely man by the time you hit your mid-20's. Break the cycle now, get out of that mindset and find girls that will like you for who you are, not what you can give them. You'll be better off in the long run.
well, ask her about it first. and see wut she says. and then if u think she is lying to you then wait till the next time they see each other then ask her again. if u still think shes lying then end it! save that nice neaklace for a girl that you know you can trust.
omg i'm in the 8th grade to i wish we had some guys like you at my school but n-e-ways save it till ya'll are going out for more then a month and a half
Whether or not you stay together, the necklace is wayyyyy too much. Gift her something else.
As for the necklace, give it to mom or grandma! She'll always be there, unlike the girl. And your mom will appreciate it more. Show her your appreciation! Lol.
BUT (ofcourse)! there's this kid who we're friends with, who only comes here about once every two weeks. It's clear that he likes her, but it's unclear if she likes him back. Just today infact, my girlfriend kissed him on the cheek when he had to leave. Kissed, and they also hug each other constantly- which is a pretty big feat for only knowing him for 10 days. We never hugged when we were friends, and we most definately didn't kiss. They even seem to be further into a relationship than me and her, which really bothers me. Problem is, I still like her... and the necklace could help solve it. So, gift or Break-up?My girlfriend; break up with her, or give her the gift?
Take the necklace get your money back, and tell her to fucl%26lt; off.My girlfriend; break up with her, or give her the gift?
even if you do decide to stay with her...don't give her the necklace.
if my daughter came home with an expensive gift from her eighth grade boyfriend, i'd send it back to school with her.
it's just not appropritae.
First, I am impressed that you have saved $120! I know how if feels to really like someone and not have them feel the same way about you. But I have learned that if you have to buy someone something (or do something that doesn't make you feel good about yourself) then maybe you have to rethink your relationship. You want someone who will like you for Who you are, not for what you can give them. As much as it might hurt to have to let that person go and follow their own path it will only hurt more later after you have invested more time and thoughts into that person. I vote you return the necklace and buy yourself something that you have been wanting.
Hope things turn out for you.
talk, than make your decision.
It's clear she likes him, so get her to talk about it. ANd if she lies to you, break up. Make it clear that this is really bothering you, don't let her be vague. Make her be specific.
gift, make ur move then n get ahead of that kid
Don't use the necklace to ';get'; her.
1) she'll just take the necklace thinking it's a friendly gift and now you're out $120.00.
2) if she does take the necklace and now starts liking you, would you want a girl like that?
Hold on to the necklace (or return it and get it later) and see where your relationship goes. Kiss on the cheek doesn't mean anything. You could kiss her on the cheek and see what happens.
I say you are to young to be worrying about this stuff. If something happens let it happen, if it doesn't then let it go. Cash in the necklace and buy your mom something for
M-Day!!!!
You are in 8th grade. There is plenty of time to find the right partner for you.
Return the necklace and put the money in your college fund.
Or you can just randomly one day walk up and plant a kiss right on her lips, most likely she'll kiss you back. She's waiting for you to make the first move. She's using this other guy to make you jealous. She wants you to get feisty and actually kiss her. Don't give her the necklace yet. Keep ahold of that necklace until that moreso specialer girl comes along. There will be plenty. but just remember, don't get jealous.
There are three rules that I have found helpful in my dealings with the XX chromosomes. I hope that they will help you.
Rule one: money will not get her. Women cannot be bought, no amount of flowers, necklaces, horse-drawn carriages, or candle-lit dinners will get the woman you want to reciprocate. Rule two: don't assume anything! Sometimes ambiguity or vagueness can add flavor to a relationship, but not in the long-term cases. You say she is your girlfriend, how do you know that? Did you assume? Holding hands? Women are flirtacious by nature so don't assume anything. If there was a girlfriend-boyfriend conversation then you should have kissed her then; furhtermore, you have an open door to kiss her at any time you feel appropriate--I mean that's kind of the idea right? (I am granting you can sense appropiate times)
Rule three: make the rules clear. Rules govern our everyday, so in turn they govern all of our relationships. The dating scene is no exception. If you are uncomfortable with her kissing other guys then say it. Be careful not to come off as jealous, but don't ever tip-toe for someone. Because as soon as you do you will find yourself doing more dancing than you ever expected.
In the end be a man. Stick up for yourself and your feelings.
A monetary gift will not solve the issue at hand. Do not give her the necklace just to get her to give you more attention. Communication is always number one in a relationship. Sit down with her and have a heart-to-heart talk. Find out how she feels about you and get everything out in the open as far as this other guy is concerned as well. Honesty and trust are vital parts to a relationship whether it be a friend or a girlfriend.
First off, where the heck does an 8th grader get 120 dollars?!
Secondly, you may end up giving her the necklace, but it's a sure thing she's going to leave you at some point. Then you've gotten yourself into a rut of giving women gifts just to keep them with you. And you'll find yourself a broke, lonely man by the time you hit your mid-20's. Break the cycle now, get out of that mindset and find girls that will like you for who you are, not what you can give them. You'll be better off in the long run.
well, ask her about it first. and see wut she says. and then if u think she is lying to you then wait till the next time they see each other then ask her again. if u still think shes lying then end it! save that nice neaklace for a girl that you know you can trust.
omg i'm in the 8th grade to i wish we had some guys like you at my school but n-e-ways save it till ya'll are going out for more then a month and a half
Whether or not you stay together, the necklace is wayyyyy too much. Gift her something else.
As for the necklace, give it to mom or grandma! She'll always be there, unlike the girl. And your mom will appreciate it more. Show her your appreciation! Lol.
What is the best way to break-up with a long time girlfriend?
I have an older girlfriend of 10 plus years. How do I break-up with her? Let it out, or take it delicately?What is the best way to break-up with a long time girlfriend?
depends how long you have been going out, and what you have been through. if a long time and alot, then delicaetly. explain yourself, but if a short time and nothing, then just tell her before she gets hurtWhat is the best way to break-up with a long time girlfriend?
There is no easy way to do it, and there is no best way to do it. It depends on the people involved. Be delicate. Be kind. Chances are it will be hard for both of you. Just try to be honest with her.
depends how long you have been going out, and what you have been through. if a long time and alot, then delicaetly. explain yourself, but if a short time and nothing, then just tell her before she gets hurtWhat is the best way to break-up with a long time girlfriend?
There is no easy way to do it, and there is no best way to do it. It depends on the people involved. Be delicate. Be kind. Chances are it will be hard for both of you. Just try to be honest with her.
How do i break up with my Girlfriend who lives with me and depends completely on me.
I've lost complete interest in her.. its been 7 years and the sex is still the same. I';m in love with her brain but i'm going insane with the fake sex. How many guys do you know who fake orgasm... Well i'm one
She lives with me and i'll have to tell her to leave she is in college and only has a part time job. Her family is hopleless and destitute and she will have no where to go. I on the other hand have a good job buy all the food and have a great network of family. I will literally be putting her life in shambles she worships ever inch of me and it is far beyond unhealthly. I have made sure she lived a painless laughter filled life for all these years but i cannot continue anymore. Help me please what is the best action to let her go?How do i break up with my Girlfriend who lives with me and depends completely on me.
If you're in love with her brain but just bored in the bedroom, tell her. Maybe things will change. Everyone gets bored in their relationship, you both have to work to keep it interesting.
But if you just really don't want to be with her anymore, tell her you're sorry but it's just not right anymore. Tell her you care about her and will do what you can to help her make the transition. Let her know you love her as a person, but it's not fair to lead her on, that somewhere along the way, she became a friend.
She'll be hurt, she'll be mad. She'll ask you what she's supposed to do, where she's supposed to go. Tell her you'll figure it out with her, that you're not trying to kick her out. Don't make arrangements for her, she needs to learn to take care of herself.
How old are y'all?How do i break up with my Girlfriend who lives with me and depends completely on me.
Well you can break up with her and then allow her continue living there for 30 days. In that time she can find somewhere else to live, maybe find a better job etc. If you know this is going to be putting her in such a messed up situation then you can support her %26amp; help her along the way like helping her pack, move, find another place etc.
well is it just the sex..or do you definitely not want to be with her anymore? maybe you do need to spice it up if sex is the only problem..but if youre not into the relationship at all anymore then its done. i know you'll probably feel bad but a relationship is 2 sided and you gotta do whats best for u..just talk to her, i mean u can tell her u'll always be there for her as a friend or something but you just growing apart or something.
sounds like you just need something to spice up the relationship.
The guy taking care of her before you probably believed the same thing.
I would love to tell you to be a 'heartless bastard' and just throw her out, but that isn't my style either. Perhaps the best move would be to move her out slowly by making sure that she is coming into contact with a lot of potential new caretakers. She probably wouldn't risk what you are offering her but it's a weak solution.
I think the best answer is to just communicate your situation with her. Let her know that you still want to see that she is okay but that it is destroying you to keep taking care of her. Let her know that she needs to move on and let you move on.
One word of advice, if she moves on and succeeds beyond what you ever expected of her.....don't be jealous or hateful.
After 3 years, a smart girl would have been saving a stash for a rainy day. You gave her 7. You don't owe her anything, but since you are a nice guy, here's what you do.
Warn her. Tell her you're ready to move on. Give her 6 months to stabilize. Help her find an small apartment. Hey even pay the first month for her. Help her move her things- all the while remaining calm and kind. It'll go smoother than you think.
Okay me and my boyfriend live together it's only been two months and everything is going good in our relationship so far the sex is great cuz i cud tell if he fake it. I do the cooking, the cleaning, etc. but he wanted to do the cleaning but i don't want him do that but he's paying all the bills he don't want me pay any but all am trying to say that even through you taking care of her and everything from the break you should of told her that you was faking the sex. All you need to do is show her how she could spice up yall sex life take her to the lingerine store and tell her but position you want her to go in and so on. But don't walk out on seven years that's a lot of years you two put in the relationship so give it a try and work it out.
She lives with me and i'll have to tell her to leave she is in college and only has a part time job. Her family is hopleless and destitute and she will have no where to go. I on the other hand have a good job buy all the food and have a great network of family. I will literally be putting her life in shambles she worships ever inch of me and it is far beyond unhealthly. I have made sure she lived a painless laughter filled life for all these years but i cannot continue anymore. Help me please what is the best action to let her go?How do i break up with my Girlfriend who lives with me and depends completely on me.
If you're in love with her brain but just bored in the bedroom, tell her. Maybe things will change. Everyone gets bored in their relationship, you both have to work to keep it interesting.
But if you just really don't want to be with her anymore, tell her you're sorry but it's just not right anymore. Tell her you care about her and will do what you can to help her make the transition. Let her know you love her as a person, but it's not fair to lead her on, that somewhere along the way, she became a friend.
She'll be hurt, she'll be mad. She'll ask you what she's supposed to do, where she's supposed to go. Tell her you'll figure it out with her, that you're not trying to kick her out. Don't make arrangements for her, she needs to learn to take care of herself.
How old are y'all?How do i break up with my Girlfriend who lives with me and depends completely on me.
Well you can break up with her and then allow her continue living there for 30 days. In that time she can find somewhere else to live, maybe find a better job etc. If you know this is going to be putting her in such a messed up situation then you can support her %26amp; help her along the way like helping her pack, move, find another place etc.
well is it just the sex..or do you definitely not want to be with her anymore? maybe you do need to spice it up if sex is the only problem..but if youre not into the relationship at all anymore then its done. i know you'll probably feel bad but a relationship is 2 sided and you gotta do whats best for u..just talk to her, i mean u can tell her u'll always be there for her as a friend or something but you just growing apart or something.
sounds like you just need something to spice up the relationship.
The guy taking care of her before you probably believed the same thing.
I would love to tell you to be a 'heartless bastard' and just throw her out, but that isn't my style either. Perhaps the best move would be to move her out slowly by making sure that she is coming into contact with a lot of potential new caretakers. She probably wouldn't risk what you are offering her but it's a weak solution.
I think the best answer is to just communicate your situation with her. Let her know that you still want to see that she is okay but that it is destroying you to keep taking care of her. Let her know that she needs to move on and let you move on.
One word of advice, if she moves on and succeeds beyond what you ever expected of her.....don't be jealous or hateful.
After 3 years, a smart girl would have been saving a stash for a rainy day. You gave her 7. You don't owe her anything, but since you are a nice guy, here's what you do.
Warn her. Tell her you're ready to move on. Give her 6 months to stabilize. Help her find an small apartment. Hey even pay the first month for her. Help her move her things- all the while remaining calm and kind. It'll go smoother than you think.
Okay me and my boyfriend live together it's only been two months and everything is going good in our relationship so far the sex is great cuz i cud tell if he fake it. I do the cooking, the cleaning, etc. but he wanted to do the cleaning but i don't want him do that but he's paying all the bills he don't want me pay any but all am trying to say that even through you taking care of her and everything from the break you should of told her that you was faking the sex. All you need to do is show her how she could spice up yall sex life take her to the lingerine store and tell her but position you want her to go in and so on. But don't walk out on seven years that's a lot of years you two put in the relationship so give it a try and work it out.
Break up with girlfriend?
I know that my girlfriend is not right for me and I just want to be friends . She wont have the ';Just friends'; So I broke up with her because Im not attracted to her physically. The problem was it broke my heart not being with her I took her back, now shes dependent on me and has no family or friends that can help her Shes out of work and just had a cancer op. It will break my heart for us to split. Im sure I will get over it eventually. But I just cant let her go in view of circumpstances. I dont know what to do as I want her in my life but also need sex in my life and i wont with her. Should I break up and if so How can I do it with little or no painBreak up with girlfriend?
...you have some tough choices to make.if you are dump her now you would be the bad guy in the eyes of others, but if you stick around it is bound to make you unhappy.but why delay something that is inevitable..? I think you should come-out clean with her and tell her exactly how you feel why things wont workout. be brutally honest and don't be afraid to show that it is hurting you a lot to let go of her.. she needs to see the pain you are going through ...Break up with girlfriend?
Well, I'm sort of going through the same thing, only she doesn't have cancer or anything. And I actually did break up with her (I'm not going to tell my story, it's too long), and then I caught myself running back to her. But now, we're fine and we want to stay together for a long time. But in my oppinion, I don't think that you can do it without it hurting you and her. Unless you want to be a jerk and try to get her to hate you. And I'm sure you don't want to do that. But I think that you should just wait and see how things go. If you two were'nt meant to be, you'll break up eventually. Anyways, the best of luck to ya, and I hope everything works out.
Tell her you just want to be friends - you care about her, and you know that it's bad timing, but it's better than you stringing her along.
The solution is simple. Tell her exactly what you feel. It's no use to live your life sacrifising your happiness for others.
I know you don't want to seem like a bad guy but the truth is that life is too short to be lived in martyrdom
You have to be true to you heart. And there is no easy way to break up with anyone without feeling the pain of heartache there is no way out of that.
GOOD LUCK!
If you feel that she isnt the one, you should follow your conscience. Follow your mind, if you dont, you are going to end up hurt in the long run. So you should just end it now before its too late.
You rather just break up with her now then later. ..coz things will only get worse between you both. Talk to her and tell her you just wanna be friends and that u cant continue hurting her by stringing her along..coz right now you are only using her. It's not fair to her. Youre just hurting her more now than ever. Just let her go and move on sincing youre saying she's not the right girl for u.
first of all she will be more thankful that you are not lying to her anymore, even though she will be upset at first later on in life she will be glad that she didn't waste anymore of her time with someone who didn't want to be with her. You def want to let her know that you will be there for her but that you do not want her as a girlfriend. Don't worry about the sex part you wil find another woman who IS for you and you will have sex again.
as much as it may hurt, you need to break up. Tell her that she deserves a guy who will be dedicated to her 100%. It hurts, but it will hurt more to lead her on.
I think that by you stringing her aone like that you two are headed for disaster anyway. It will hurt her more when she finds out that the only reason you haven't broken up with her is because you feel sorry for her. Let her go so she can find somebody who does want to be with her. As for how to tell her just talk to her and let her know slowly.
wow! That's a tough one.
Perhaps you could start spending a little less time with her and break up with her slowly. My mom gave me good advice one time, ';Don't be miserable to make someone else happy. You'll both end up being resentful';.
There will be pain. It's unavoidable. She is not your responsibility. (as cold as it sounds it's the truth.) Offer to be there for friendship. The rest, unfortunately, is not your problem.
Then the ball is in her court. My heart goes out to both of you. Good luck!
I DONT THINK you should break up with her and if you do by any chance then stay taking care of her. im sure she needs you and more now that she is alone and you are everything she has....dont do this to her and sex should not be a problem for you you have your hand you can use for a while and them im sure you can make love to her later when she is better.... you have to think with the head on top of your shoulders...you are a man not a little boy anymore...>windows update triumph
...you have some tough choices to make.if you are dump her now you would be the bad guy in the eyes of others, but if you stick around it is bound to make you unhappy.but why delay something that is inevitable..? I think you should come-out clean with her and tell her exactly how you feel why things wont workout. be brutally honest and don't be afraid to show that it is hurting you a lot to let go of her.. she needs to see the pain you are going through ...Break up with girlfriend?
Well, I'm sort of going through the same thing, only she doesn't have cancer or anything. And I actually did break up with her (I'm not going to tell my story, it's too long), and then I caught myself running back to her. But now, we're fine and we want to stay together for a long time. But in my oppinion, I don't think that you can do it without it hurting you and her. Unless you want to be a jerk and try to get her to hate you. And I'm sure you don't want to do that. But I think that you should just wait and see how things go. If you two were'nt meant to be, you'll break up eventually. Anyways, the best of luck to ya, and I hope everything works out.
Tell her you just want to be friends - you care about her, and you know that it's bad timing, but it's better than you stringing her along.
The solution is simple. Tell her exactly what you feel. It's no use to live your life sacrifising your happiness for others.
I know you don't want to seem like a bad guy but the truth is that life is too short to be lived in martyrdom
You have to be true to you heart. And there is no easy way to break up with anyone without feeling the pain of heartache there is no way out of that.
GOOD LUCK!
If you feel that she isnt the one, you should follow your conscience. Follow your mind, if you dont, you are going to end up hurt in the long run. So you should just end it now before its too late.
You rather just break up with her now then later. ..coz things will only get worse between you both. Talk to her and tell her you just wanna be friends and that u cant continue hurting her by stringing her along..coz right now you are only using her. It's not fair to her. Youre just hurting her more now than ever. Just let her go and move on sincing youre saying she's not the right girl for u.
first of all she will be more thankful that you are not lying to her anymore, even though she will be upset at first later on in life she will be glad that she didn't waste anymore of her time with someone who didn't want to be with her. You def want to let her know that you will be there for her but that you do not want her as a girlfriend. Don't worry about the sex part you wil find another woman who IS for you and you will have sex again.
as much as it may hurt, you need to break up. Tell her that she deserves a guy who will be dedicated to her 100%. It hurts, but it will hurt more to lead her on.
I think that by you stringing her aone like that you two are headed for disaster anyway. It will hurt her more when she finds out that the only reason you haven't broken up with her is because you feel sorry for her. Let her go so she can find somebody who does want to be with her. As for how to tell her just talk to her and let her know slowly.
wow! That's a tough one.
Perhaps you could start spending a little less time with her and break up with her slowly. My mom gave me good advice one time, ';Don't be miserable to make someone else happy. You'll both end up being resentful';.
There will be pain. It's unavoidable. She is not your responsibility. (as cold as it sounds it's the truth.) Offer to be there for friendship. The rest, unfortunately, is not your problem.
Then the ball is in her court. My heart goes out to both of you. Good luck!
I DONT THINK you should break up with her and if you do by any chance then stay taking care of her. im sure she needs you and more now that she is alone and you are everything she has....dont do this to her and sex should not be a problem for you you have your hand you can use for a while and them im sure you can make love to her later when she is better.... you have to think with the head on top of your shoulders...you are a man not a little boy anymore...
How do I make my best friend break up with his girlfriend?
My best friend has a girlfriend, and I need to break them up.How do I make my best friend break up with his girlfriend?
You don't. You get yourself a life.How do I make my best friend break up with his girlfriend?
If you believe the relationship is wrong for your ';best friend'; you need to tell him your thoughts. It is not any of your business whether or not your ';best friend'; and his girlfriend stay together. Am I sensing some jealousy??
that,s not what us guy,s do , get your own
that is evil, but not as evil as me , but u need to set him up
okay that is just.... why do you need to break them up..???
Sleep with her, that should do it.
Tell him you saw her with another guy somewhere, maybe it was nothing.
why would u wanna ruin ur best friends happiness???
then you are not his best friend, are you? best friends don't intentionally hurt and backstab each other.
Don't do that.
******.
What???? Why do you need to break them up? Are you jealous of their relationship? Does she steal all of his free time? Is she cheating?
You need to be more specific as to WHY you want to break them up!
You need to leave your friend and his girlfriend alone! Stop being so jealous and get a girlfriend of your own so that you can all hang out together. You should be happy for your friend!
that is not your job to do not to mention it makes you a jerk. you break them up you loose your best friend too.
You call urself a best friend and u want to end ur friends relationship?
i sincerely doubt you're breaking them up for their own benefit, otherwise, they wouldn't need any help breaking up, now would they? i would reconsider calling your best friend your ';best friend'; until you learn to grow up and want what's best for him, too.
Are you sure that's what you really want to do. Think about it, when they break up, who has to hear his constant whining and crying? It's going to be you and you are going to greatly regret it.
dont be jealous
Why, exactly, do you need to break them up?
If there's a particularly good reason why he's better off without her - if she's abusive or cheating on him - then I'm sure that with some support and some straight talking from you he's perfectly capable of breaking up with her on his own.
If he isn't spending enough time with you, just tell him. If this is totally spurious - leave him alone, he deserves to be happy.
y do u want to do such a thing.....u didnt tell whether u r jealous n thats y want to do it....i guess thats wrong then.....
Then you'll have no friends.
You don't. You get yourself a life.How do I make my best friend break up with his girlfriend?
If you believe the relationship is wrong for your ';best friend'; you need to tell him your thoughts. It is not any of your business whether or not your ';best friend'; and his girlfriend stay together. Am I sensing some jealousy??
that,s not what us guy,s do , get your own
that is evil, but not as evil as me , but u need to set him up
okay that is just.... why do you need to break them up..???
Sleep with her, that should do it.
Tell him you saw her with another guy somewhere, maybe it was nothing.
why would u wanna ruin ur best friends happiness???
then you are not his best friend, are you? best friends don't intentionally hurt and backstab each other.
Don't do that.
******.
What???? Why do you need to break them up? Are you jealous of their relationship? Does she steal all of his free time? Is she cheating?
You need to be more specific as to WHY you want to break them up!
You need to leave your friend and his girlfriend alone! Stop being so jealous and get a girlfriend of your own so that you can all hang out together. You should be happy for your friend!
that is not your job to do not to mention it makes you a jerk. you break them up you loose your best friend too.
You call urself a best friend and u want to end ur friends relationship?
i sincerely doubt you're breaking them up for their own benefit, otherwise, they wouldn't need any help breaking up, now would they? i would reconsider calling your best friend your ';best friend'; until you learn to grow up and want what's best for him, too.
Are you sure that's what you really want to do. Think about it, when they break up, who has to hear his constant whining and crying? It's going to be you and you are going to greatly regret it.
dont be jealous
Why, exactly, do you need to break them up?
If there's a particularly good reason why he's better off without her - if she's abusive or cheating on him - then I'm sure that with some support and some straight talking from you he's perfectly capable of breaking up with her on his own.
If he isn't spending enough time with you, just tell him. If this is totally spurious - leave him alone, he deserves to be happy.
y do u want to do such a thing.....u didnt tell whether u r jealous n thats y want to do it....i guess thats wrong then.....
Then you'll have no friends.
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